"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how do i fix this one...?

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jenzos

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Well it seems ya'll give some good advice, let me explain my problem I have.

Okay to start the story, my friend got a girlfriend and she is super cool, so being the ass I am I have hooked up with about 5 of her friends in the past few weeks. She loves to tell them to chill with us and they always abide. So the problem is, in doing this, I made a nice little reputation of "the player, pimp" type guy. I should want this shouldnt I? But does it turn girls off and I think they know that I do this quite often, and they seem do the same thing. It seems as though they just want to hookup and then dont talk to me ever again haha.

How do i go about getting them all to want to hookup with me numerous times/want to go out with me?

Cliffnotes: basically, i hookup with plenty of girls, but I can't get to get the second time or third time. I want them to all want to do it again. etc. etc.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well maybe you should instead of having sex with them as soon as hey want, make them wait for it. You seem to get plenty so you shouldn't mind making them wait. Or you could become extremely good in bed and then they will want to hook up with you again.
 
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First, it's not your fault you're a pimp player:D

God gave you skills, or you worked on them, and now you are what you are.

Why change that?

Instead, try focusing only on one at a time. Be friends with the rest, keep your intentions SECRET. Focus on that one, and now that you're not giving the other girls any attention, see what the result is. Some may like the lack of attention, others may want it back.

Remember, sh*t spreads quicker than a ho's legs, so keep everything under wraps.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Remember, sh*t spreads quicker than a ho's legs, so keep everything under wraps."
HAHAHA... that's great
 
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