"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do I escalate with this girl?

Stéphane

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Anyways been on two dates and on both dates we been making out heavy and on the 2nd date when we saw a movie she was grabbing my **** and putting her hand under my pants.

Only problem is that every time I try too escalate for sex it doesn't work out, because I need to f*ck her at her place because my homestay landlord doesn't want me to bring girls over.

Every time I tell her that she should invite me for orange juice, she thinks about it a lot and says maybbbee but then says no...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vice

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If her hand was in your pants... that's the green light to do whatever you want dude. From that point just find a secluded place and go for it! Don't let "rules" get in your way, you don't need to do it on a bed every time. Ever seen a steamy movie where they get busy in the hallway?

Read Vin Dicarlo's escalation ladder. That'll teach you EVERYTHING.
 

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Stéphane said:
Anyways been on two dates and on both dates we been making out heavy and on the 2nd date when we saw a movie she was grabbing my **** and putting her hand under my pants.

Only problem is that every time I try too escalate for sex it doesn't work out, because I need to f*ck her at her place because my homestay landlord doesn't want me to bring girls over.

Every time I tell her that she should invite me for orange juice, she thinks about it a lot and says maybbbee but then says no...
first I would say you should change your name..then get yourself a pair a nads and tell your landlord to go to the store and buy a box of condoms, a 4 pack of energy drinks, and a banana you then tell him to use these items to go **** himself cause you will do what ever you want to because you are now the alpha of the house..tell him you'll break his ****ing if he ever disrespects you again..then you get that chick over..seduce her ith alchol, sleeping pills and laxitives..from there you have your way with her..
 

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Time to get creative, Stéphane. Some of the most memorable experiences of my life happened when we didn't have a "convenient" place to fvck. I'm not going to go into the various locations I've done it, but suffice to say that opportunities abound if you're crafty enough. If she's horny enough, she'll have no problem letting you butter her muffins in a car/hotel room/elevator/bathroom stall/office etc.
 

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I was in her bed today, but there was too much resistance, and I asked her if she was virgin and she said yes... so that seems to be the problem here.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Man, if her hands are in your pants in the cinema, it REVEALS a lot about her.

1. She wants it bad, but there is a precaution to bringing you home. Perhaps she doesn't want you to be seen with her where she's staying?

2. Sneak her back to your place. Your landlord doesn't really monitor your every move right? Get on some covert level and fly under radar.

3. Check in a motel if you must.
 
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