"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do I escalate with this girl?

Stéphane

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Anyways been on two dates and on both dates we been making out heavy and on the 2nd date when we saw a movie she was grabbing my **** and putting her hand under my pants.

Only problem is that every time I try too escalate for sex it doesn't work out, because I need to f*ck her at her place because my homestay landlord doesn't want me to bring girls over.

Every time I tell her that she should invite me for orange juice, she thinks about it a lot and says maybbbee but then says no...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vice

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If her hand was in your pants... that's the green light to do whatever you want dude. From that point just find a secluded place and go for it! Don't let "rules" get in your way, you don't need to do it on a bed every time. Ever seen a steamy movie where they get busy in the hallway?

Read Vin Dicarlo's escalation ladder. That'll teach you EVERYTHING.
 

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Stéphane said:
Anyways been on two dates and on both dates we been making out heavy and on the 2nd date when we saw a movie she was grabbing my **** and putting her hand under my pants.

Only problem is that every time I try too escalate for sex it doesn't work out, because I need to f*ck her at her place because my homestay landlord doesn't want me to bring girls over.

Every time I tell her that she should invite me for orange juice, she thinks about it a lot and says maybbbee but then says no...
first I would say you should change your name..then get yourself a pair a nads and tell your landlord to go to the store and buy a box of condoms, a 4 pack of energy drinks, and a banana you then tell him to use these items to go **** himself cause you will do what ever you want to because you are now the alpha of the house..tell him you'll break his ****ing if he ever disrespects you again..then you get that chick over..seduce her ith alchol, sleeping pills and laxitives..from there you have your way with her..
 

thecurtainfalls

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Time to get creative, Stéphane. Some of the most memorable experiences of my life happened when we didn't have a "convenient" place to fvck. I'm not going to go into the various locations I've done it, but suffice to say that opportunities abound if you're crafty enough. If she's horny enough, she'll have no problem letting you butter her muffins in a car/hotel room/elevator/bathroom stall/office etc.
 

Stéphane

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I was in her bed today, but there was too much resistance, and I asked her if she was virgin and she said yes... so that seems to be the problem here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Allurre

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Man, if her hands are in your pants in the cinema, it REVEALS a lot about her.

1. She wants it bad, but there is a precaution to bringing you home. Perhaps she doesn't want you to be seen with her where she's staying?

2. Sneak her back to your place. Your landlord doesn't really monitor your every move right? Get on some covert level and fly under radar.

3. Check in a motel if you must.
 
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