I've been getting low interest levels from this girl so I'm doing the no contact thing. No responding to texts, etc. We talk almost every day (my first mistake to begin with) so she's gonna know somethings up when I just randomly stop responding to her texts. I can only say I'm busy for so long before she realizes I'm doing it on purpose. Advice?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How do I do no contact without her figuring it out?
- Thread starter duke104
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Stop texting. Tell her if she wants to talk to you, if has to be done over the phone. Read the DJ Bible, The Book of Pook, The Game, and The Mystery Method, before you ask another question.
You're missing the point.
No contact means no contact.
She'll figure it out after you ignore her for the sixth time in a row. You are not to worry about what she thinks anymore. As far as you're concerned, she does not exist.
No contact means no contact.
She'll figure it out after you ignore her for the sixth time in a row. You are not to worry about what she thinks anymore. As far as you're concerned, she does not exist.