I've been getting low interest levels from this girl so I'm doing the no contact thing. No responding to texts, etc. We talk almost every day (my first mistake to begin with) so she's gonna know somethings up when I just randomly stop responding to her texts. I can only say I'm busy for so long before she realizes I'm doing it on purpose. Advice?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How do I do no contact without her figuring it out?
- Thread starter duke104
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Stop texting. Tell her if she wants to talk to you, if has to be done over the phone. Read the DJ Bible, The Book of Pook, The Game, and The Mystery Method, before you ask another question.
You're missing the point.
No contact means no contact.
She'll figure it out after you ignore her for the sixth time in a row. You are not to worry about what she thinks anymore. As far as you're concerned, she does not exist.
No contact means no contact.
She'll figure it out after you ignore her for the sixth time in a row. You are not to worry about what she thinks anymore. As far as you're concerned, she does not exist.