I've been getting low interest levels from this girl so I'm doing the no contact thing. No responding to texts, etc. We talk almost every day (my first mistake to begin with) so she's gonna know somethings up when I just randomly stop responding to her texts. I can only say I'm busy for so long before she realizes I'm doing it on purpose. Advice?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How do I do no contact without her figuring it out?
- Thread starter duke104
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Stop texting. Tell her if she wants to talk to you, if has to be done over the phone. Read the DJ Bible, The Book of Pook, The Game, and The Mystery Method, before you ask another question.
You're missing the point.
No contact means no contact.
She'll figure it out after you ignore her for the sixth time in a row. You are not to worry about what she thinks anymore. As far as you're concerned, she does not exist.
No contact means no contact.
She'll figure it out after you ignore her for the sixth time in a row. You are not to worry about what she thinks anymore. As far as you're concerned, she does not exist.