"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do I deal with a woman on her period?

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I recently met up with an old flame while overseas.The day we met up, we fool around a bit and she tells me that she is on her period and won't have sex. She also me she won't have sex with me because we're "friends." Then we fool around more the next few days and still no going past 3rd base.

I am kind of confused about whether or not I got friendzoned/denied simply because she was on her period. She was all over the place emotionally, going from really giggling to really disinterested to crying and depressed.

I am wondering if I should just give the whole experience a wash and try again in a few weeks when she isn't on the rag.

I am not interested in a relationship with her, just one last fling. Right now I am just trying to game her (over skype because she's away now) and play it by ear.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SharinganUser said:
I recently met up with an old flame while overseas.The day we met up, we fool around a bit and she tells me that she is on her period and won't have sex. She also me she won't have sex with me because we're "friends." Then we fool around more the next few days and still no going past 3rd base.

I am kind of confused about whether or not I got friendzoned/denied simply because she was on her period. She was all over the place emotionally, going from really giggling to really disinterested to crying and depressed.

I am wondering if I should just give the whole experience a wash and try again in a few weeks when she isn't on the rag.

I am not interested in a relationship with her, just one last fling. Right now I am just trying to game her (over skype because she's away now) and play it by ear.
Dude, how many times do you have to be turned down to get the hint that she doesn't want you to bone her?

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She also me she won't have sex with me because we're "friends.".


Her Words dude.....she doesn't want you
 

SharinganUser

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buzzin_frog said:
Dude, how many times do you have to be turned down to get the hint that she doesn't want you to bone her?

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Her Words dude.....she doesn't want you
You are probably right, but I have nothing to lose.
 

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SharinganUser said:
How do I deal with a woman on her period?
Get one of those spit trays from the dentist.

SharinganUser said:
I am wondering if I should just give the whole thing a wash
Worth a try.
 

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getting some towels and some carpet stain remover might be a good idea
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Guys, you are missing the point. I am in a hotel room. I don't have to worry about the sheets or the carpet.
 

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Motel 6 or TraveLodge?
 

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Down Low said:
Get one of those spit trays from the dentist.
:crackup:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Oh, sorry man. Well, there's not really enough info to go on here, but generally when chicks contradict themselves (no sex due to period vs no sex due to 'friendship'), it's a bad sign for you. She sounds like a nutter anyway and I wouldn't put too much energy into her, but sure ,why not, give it another shot for a lay. This might be the type of girl you basically need to nag into f*cking you and hope you get her at a weird emotional moment when she's open to it.
 
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