"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do I deal with a woman on her period?

SharinganUser

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I recently met up with an old flame while overseas.The day we met up, we fool around a bit and she tells me that she is on her period and won't have sex. She also me she won't have sex with me because we're "friends." Then we fool around more the next few days and still no going past 3rd base.

I am kind of confused about whether or not I got friendzoned/denied simply because she was on her period. She was all over the place emotionally, going from really giggling to really disinterested to crying and depressed.

I am wondering if I should just give the whole experience a wash and try again in a few weeks when she isn't on the rag.

I am not interested in a relationship with her, just one last fling. Right now I am just trying to game her (over skype because she's away now) and play it by ear.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SharinganUser said:
I recently met up with an old flame while overseas.The day we met up, we fool around a bit and she tells me that she is on her period and won't have sex. She also me she won't have sex with me because we're "friends." Then we fool around more the next few days and still no going past 3rd base.

I am kind of confused about whether or not I got friendzoned/denied simply because she was on her period. She was all over the place emotionally, going from really giggling to really disinterested to crying and depressed.

I am wondering if I should just give the whole experience a wash and try again in a few weeks when she isn't on the rag.

I am not interested in a relationship with her, just one last fling. Right now I am just trying to game her (over skype because she's away now) and play it by ear.
Dude, how many times do you have to be turned down to get the hint that she doesn't want you to bone her?

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She also me she won't have sex with me because we're "friends.".


Her Words dude.....she doesn't want you
 

SharinganUser

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buzzin_frog said:
Dude, how many times do you have to be turned down to get the hint that she doesn't want you to bone her?

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Her Words dude.....she doesn't want you
You are probably right, but I have nothing to lose.
 

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SharinganUser said:
How do I deal with a woman on her period?
Get one of those spit trays from the dentist.

SharinganUser said:
I am wondering if I should just give the whole thing a wash
Worth a try.
 

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getting some towels and some carpet stain remover might be a good idea
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SharinganUser

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Guys, you are missing the point. I am in a hotel room. I don't have to worry about the sheets or the carpet.
 

Down Low

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Motel 6 or TraveLodge?
 

HeadLightsOn

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Down Low said:
Get one of those spit trays from the dentist.
:crackup:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oh, sorry man. Well, there's not really enough info to go on here, but generally when chicks contradict themselves (no sex due to period vs no sex due to 'friendship'), it's a bad sign for you. She sounds like a nutter anyway and I wouldn't put too much energy into her, but sure ,why not, give it another shot for a lay. This might be the type of girl you basically need to nag into f*cking you and hope you get her at a weird emotional moment when she's open to it.
 
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