Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do I deal with a woman on her period?

SharinganUser

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I recently met up with an old flame while overseas.The day we met up, we fool around a bit and she tells me that she is on her period and won't have sex. She also me she won't have sex with me because we're "friends." Then we fool around more the next few days and still no going past 3rd base.

I am kind of confused about whether or not I got friendzoned/denied simply because she was on her period. She was all over the place emotionally, going from really giggling to really disinterested to crying and depressed.

I am wondering if I should just give the whole experience a wash and try again in a few weeks when she isn't on the rag.

I am not interested in a relationship with her, just one last fling. Right now I am just trying to game her (over skype because she's away now) and play it by ear.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SharinganUser said:
I recently met up with an old flame while overseas.The day we met up, we fool around a bit and she tells me that she is on her period and won't have sex. She also me she won't have sex with me because we're "friends." Then we fool around more the next few days and still no going past 3rd base.

I am kind of confused about whether or not I got friendzoned/denied simply because she was on her period. She was all over the place emotionally, going from really giggling to really disinterested to crying and depressed.

I am wondering if I should just give the whole experience a wash and try again in a few weeks when she isn't on the rag.

I am not interested in a relationship with her, just one last fling. Right now I am just trying to game her (over skype because she's away now) and play it by ear.
Dude, how many times do you have to be turned down to get the hint that she doesn't want you to bone her?

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She also me she won't have sex with me because we're "friends.".


Her Words dude.....she doesn't want you
 

SharinganUser

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buzzin_frog said:
Dude, how many times do you have to be turned down to get the hint that she doesn't want you to bone her?

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Her Words dude.....she doesn't want you
You are probably right, but I have nothing to lose.
 

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SharinganUser said:
How do I deal with a woman on her period?
Get one of those spit trays from the dentist.

SharinganUser said:
I am wondering if I should just give the whole thing a wash
Worth a try.
 

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getting some towels and some carpet stain remover might be a good idea
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guys, you are missing the point. I am in a hotel room. I don't have to worry about the sheets or the carpet.
 

Down Low

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Motel 6 or TraveLodge?
 

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Down Low said:
Get one of those spit trays from the dentist.
:crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Oh, sorry man. Well, there's not really enough info to go on here, but generally when chicks contradict themselves (no sex due to period vs no sex due to 'friendship'), it's a bad sign for you. She sounds like a nutter anyway and I wouldn't put too much energy into her, but sure ,why not, give it another shot for a lay. This might be the type of girl you basically need to nag into f*cking you and hope you get her at a weird emotional moment when she's open to it.
 
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