"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do i become outgoing and fun?/Keep interest

youngmack

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I feel that i am very boring. Whenever i converse(usualy through text) the conversations are always dead, i never have any idea what to say or what to do.Nothing ever comes to mind. I have a feeling that this is the reason why i dont pick up or have as much girls as i should.. i mean dont get me wrong i attract a good amount of girls but its just keeping them interested,and being outgoing and fun with them is my problem. I basically run them away and have them lose attraction with my boring conversations and unFUNness
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chamber36

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The best thing you can do if you want to be interesting is to have an interesting lifestyle. Make sure you do something fun which you could talk about every 2 or 3 weeks. Go to parties, travel, etc. You should go clubbing at least twice a week or more if you really want to get into a talkative state.

If you want to become a better orator I guess you could read "How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie", though the book didn't do much for me personally. I'm sure some other people will have good recommendations for that.

If you want to learn to have fun (without meeting people lol) you should watch Fresh Prince of Bel Air, Jim Carrey, Robin Williams, Eddie Murphy, Chris Rock, or whoever you like.

I used to have the same [problem where I could attract but when I talked too much, interest would often plummet.

You probably need to work on your (body) language skills. Don't lean in, keep your voice tone low, talk with pauses(at a volume to cause the other person to lean in), not too much smiling(sign of weakness), keep your eye-contact strong as a laser beam, don't let another person push you from the space you're standing, etc. Keep everything in moderation.

I recommend that you read The Game by Neil Strauss or The Art of Mackin' by Tariq Nasheed.
 
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