"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do I be an amazing boyfriend?

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I see these girls on myspace that are like "I have an amazing boyfriend!" and they show a picture. Anyway, i'm almost in a LTR right now, we're both in a neutral zone, she just got out of a 2 year relationship so she's not commiting to anything. But I want to be "that guy", that one who she absolutely loves and adores. Does that include buying her flowers and treating her like gold? I would assume so, but then again, I don't want to come off as needy and like she's the only one for me, because women pick up on that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to be an 'amazing boyfriend' on MySpace:

Take a shot of your 6 pack abs with your shoddy cellphone cam and post it as your main avatar pic. See? Real easy.
 
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Take her to dinner, be a cool, fun guy. Open doors for her etc.

Most of the guys who don't know how to get girls will tell you "Don't buy her dinner, flowers, etc. etc."
 
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just be crazy and think that you are the master.you rule..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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piterx said:
just be crazy and think that you are the master.you rule..
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BINGO,Im currently in the works of stealing this girl from her boyfriend by doing ubsurd things. I asked her out even though she knew I knew about her boyfriend,I didnt back down,low and behold she is slowly dropping her boyfriend for me. I asked her "quick 5 words that describe me" and she responded with "tricky,****y,funny,bold and different",now if that isn't a perfect answer I dont know what is. Just reassure her of your ****y & funniness, "you know how many other chicks would love to be going out with the best guy ever,I dont know how you managed to pull it off"
 
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T Money said:
I see these girls on myspace that are like "I have an amazing boyfriend!" and they show a picture. Anyway, i'm almost in a LTR right now, we're both in a neutral zone, she just got out of a 2 year relationship so she's not commiting to anything. But I want to be "that guy", that one who she absolutely loves and adores. Does that include buying her flowers and treating her like gold? I would assume so, but then again, I don't want to come off as needy and like she's the only one for me, because women pick up on that.
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Def. do NOT buy her flowers and "treat her like gold" :crackup: she will lose interest in you faster than...well....fast.
 
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A girl i know says she is sick of her boyfreind because he never compliments her. So that should be something you do (sincerly and spairingly)

If you keep her on her toe's keep her wondering does he really like me and then you make a gesture to show that you do (flowers maybe?) then this will help.
 
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Look, do you really want to be an 'amazing' boyfriend? Do you think that there is only one kind of an amazing boyfriend on this planet? Everyone can be an amazing boyfriend but just don't fall in the traps of what you see on pictures, movies, commercials, and - especially - lovesongs. Make her laugh with your jokes, don't be too serious and dont't put her on pole position in your life.
And don't forget: after the first 3 -6 months you start to irritate about this girls (this happens with al girls) and then you have already forgotten this question because then you realize that you can't be amazing all the time!

Back from hell,

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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there's no clear cut answer to this question. You need to get in a few relationships and experience them for yourself. Through experimentation, you will learn what it takes.
 
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Take her to dinner, be a cool, fun guy. Open doors for her etc.

Most of the guys who don't know how to get girls will tell you "Don't buy her dinner, flowers, etc. etc."
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After you're done following this clowns advice why don't you clean the cumstains off the shirt she wiped her pvssy with after the real guy dumped a load or twelve in her.

Trix are for kids.
 
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Well I have no problem keeping her interested in me, I am funny, we do fun spontaneous adventurous sh!t that she says she's never done with anyone before. I just want to keep it going, even after the puppy-love phase.
 
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Give her "amazing" sex,after that not alot matters.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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