"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do I be an amazing boyfriend?

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I see these girls on myspace that are like "I have an amazing boyfriend!" and they show a picture. Anyway, i'm almost in a LTR right now, we're both in a neutral zone, she just got out of a 2 year relationship so she's not commiting to anything. But I want to be "that guy", that one who she absolutely loves and adores. Does that include buying her flowers and treating her like gold? I would assume so, but then again, I don't want to come off as needy and like she's the only one for me, because women pick up on that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to be an 'amazing boyfriend' on MySpace:

Take a shot of your 6 pack abs with your shoddy cellphone cam and post it as your main avatar pic. See? Real easy.
 
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Take her to dinner, be a cool, fun guy. Open doors for her etc.

Most of the guys who don't know how to get girls will tell you "Don't buy her dinner, flowers, etc. etc."
 
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just be crazy and think that you are the master.you rule..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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piterx said:
just be crazy and think that you are the master.you rule..
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BINGO,Im currently in the works of stealing this girl from her boyfriend by doing ubsurd things. I asked her out even though she knew I knew about her boyfriend,I didnt back down,low and behold she is slowly dropping her boyfriend for me. I asked her "quick 5 words that describe me" and she responded with "tricky,****y,funny,bold and different",now if that isn't a perfect answer I dont know what is. Just reassure her of your ****y & funniness, "you know how many other chicks would love to be going out with the best guy ever,I dont know how you managed to pull it off"
 
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T Money said:
I see these girls on myspace that are like "I have an amazing boyfriend!" and they show a picture. Anyway, i'm almost in a LTR right now, we're both in a neutral zone, she just got out of a 2 year relationship so she's not commiting to anything. But I want to be "that guy", that one who she absolutely loves and adores. Does that include buying her flowers and treating her like gold? I would assume so, but then again, I don't want to come off as needy and like she's the only one for me, because women pick up on that.
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Def. do NOT buy her flowers and "treat her like gold" :crackup: she will lose interest in you faster than...well....fast.
 
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A girl i know says she is sick of her boyfreind because he never compliments her. So that should be something you do (sincerly and spairingly)

If you keep her on her toe's keep her wondering does he really like me and then you make a gesture to show that you do (flowers maybe?) then this will help.
 
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Look, do you really want to be an 'amazing' boyfriend? Do you think that there is only one kind of an amazing boyfriend on this planet? Everyone can be an amazing boyfriend but just don't fall in the traps of what you see on pictures, movies, commercials, and - especially - lovesongs. Make her laugh with your jokes, don't be too serious and dont't put her on pole position in your life.
And don't forget: after the first 3 -6 months you start to irritate about this girls (this happens with al girls) and then you have already forgotten this question because then you realize that you can't be amazing all the time!

Back from hell,

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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there's no clear cut answer to this question. You need to get in a few relationships and experience them for yourself. Through experimentation, you will learn what it takes.
 
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spaceman2001 said:
Take her to dinner, be a cool, fun guy. Open doors for her etc.

Most of the guys who don't know how to get girls will tell you "Don't buy her dinner, flowers, etc. etc."
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After you're done following this clowns advice why don't you clean the cumstains off the shirt she wiped her pvssy with after the real guy dumped a load or twelve in her.

Trix are for kids.
 
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Well I have no problem keeping her interested in me, I am funny, we do fun spontaneous adventurous sh!t that she says she's never done with anyone before. I just want to keep it going, even after the puppy-love phase.
 
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Give her "amazing" sex,after that not alot matters.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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