"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do I ask a girl to go shopping with me?

Brighty

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Like, it seems so weird. This girl who's into me and wants to hang out with me texted me the other day and I had my phone off so I didn't get it. I'm thinking of texting her back and inviting her to come over and go shopping with me for back to school stuff because I have a shytty fashion sense and she'd probably know good stores to shop at.

So, how would I go about asking her?
 

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what he said.

HOWEVER, you shoudln't ask her to join you...you should re-word that so you say something along the lines of:

"Hello there________. I'm going to the mall, you should join me. I have a shytty fashion sense and you probably know good stores to shop at. "
 

Brighty

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okay, I'll give it a shot, as a rule of thumb though, what stores usually are good to shop at?
 

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I just tried it for fun, for the benefit of you...lol

I asked a girl "we should go shopping soon for back to school clothes"

she responded "I already went, I start again in less than two weeks"

I said "Alright, Ill find someone else to go with..."

she said "I can help you shop, but do you trust me"

I said "thats why we're going to sherway (a nice highend mall) that way you can't f*** up."

needless to say I got a date for sunday. and...Ill be spending money on MYSELF that date.
 

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Espi said:
I would ask her in the exact same manner you just wrote:

"Hello there________. I have a shytty fashion sense and you'd probably know good stores to shop at. Care to join me for 2 hours at the mall?"

Don't specify a day or time...if she's interested, she'll likely reply, "Sure...what time?" Then you can close the date.

Dont say youre ****ty at fashion man.
you simply say to her I am going to the mall to shop some clothes you wanna join? simple as that
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mtlwlu

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Ive never met a girl who passes up a chance to go shopping.
 
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