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How do I ask a girl to go shopping with me?

Brighty

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Like, it seems so weird. This girl who's into me and wants to hang out with me texted me the other day and I had my phone off so I didn't get it. I'm thinking of texting her back and inviting her to come over and go shopping with me for back to school stuff because I have a shytty fashion sense and she'd probably know good stores to shop at.

So, how would I go about asking her?
 

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what he said.

HOWEVER, you shoudln't ask her to join you...you should re-word that so you say something along the lines of:

"Hello there________. I'm going to the mall, you should join me. I have a shytty fashion sense and you probably know good stores to shop at. "
 

Brighty

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okay, I'll give it a shot, as a rule of thumb though, what stores usually are good to shop at?
 

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I just tried it for fun, for the benefit of you...lol

I asked a girl "we should go shopping soon for back to school clothes"

she responded "I already went, I start again in less than two weeks"

I said "Alright, Ill find someone else to go with..."

she said "I can help you shop, but do you trust me"

I said "thats why we're going to sherway (a nice highend mall) that way you can't f*** up."

needless to say I got a date for sunday. and...Ill be spending money on MYSELF that date.
 

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Espi said:
I would ask her in the exact same manner you just wrote:

"Hello there________. I have a shytty fashion sense and you'd probably know good stores to shop at. Care to join me for 2 hours at the mall?"

Don't specify a day or time...if she's interested, she'll likely reply, "Sure...what time?" Then you can close the date.

Dont say youre ****ty at fashion man.
you simply say to her I am going to the mall to shop some clothes you wanna join? simple as that
 

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Ive never met a girl who passes up a chance to go shopping.
 
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