"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do I ask a girl to go shopping with me?

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Like, it seems so weird. This girl who's into me and wants to hang out with me texted me the other day and I had my phone off so I didn't get it. I'm thinking of texting her back and inviting her to come over and go shopping with me for back to school stuff because I have a shytty fashion sense and she'd probably know good stores to shop at.

So, how would I go about asking her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what he said.

HOWEVER, you shoudln't ask her to join you...you should re-word that so you say something along the lines of:

"Hello there________. I'm going to the mall, you should join me. I have a shytty fashion sense and you probably know good stores to shop at. "
 
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okay, I'll give it a shot, as a rule of thumb though, what stores usually are good to shop at?
 
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I just tried it for fun, for the benefit of you...lol

I asked a girl "we should go shopping soon for back to school clothes"

she responded "I already went, I start again in less than two weeks"

I said "Alright, Ill find someone else to go with..."

she said "I can help you shop, but do you trust me"

I said "thats why we're going to sherway (a nice highend mall) that way you can't f*** up."

needless to say I got a date for sunday. and...Ill be spending money on MYSELF that date.
 
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Espi said:
I would ask her in the exact same manner you just wrote:

"Hello there________. I have a shytty fashion sense and you'd probably know good stores to shop at. Care to join me for 2 hours at the mall?"

Don't specify a day or time...if she's interested, she'll likely reply, "Sure...what time?" Then you can close the date.
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Dont say youre ****ty at fashion man.
you simply say to her I am going to the mall to shop some clothes you wanna join? simple as that
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ive never met a girl who passes up a chance to go shopping.
 
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