"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How do I approach this?

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rAFCOliver

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So I went out on Saturday with friends, spotted someone I used to know at the club, one thing lead to another and we ended up back at her place.

Ended up having sex pretty briefly but I was pretty smashed and didn’t finish. I come home, speak to her the next day and sleep off the hangover.

Thing is, I want to ask her if she’s on birth control cause I’m paranoid as **** now. Should I just send her a message “hey, just thought I know it was fairly brief the other day but are you on birth control just in case?”
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How would she know if it's your baby? If you're that afraid, just go NC! Man, it's always the dude that talks too much with these women gets to be the daddy lul
 
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I don't know how to handle this. I always asked before having sex or wrapped it up, regardless of how drunk I was. It will probably be fine this time, but always go out prepared, bring at least 1 condom.

That said, whether you know or not won't change the outcome, it will just let you know the outcome in advance. Asking her won't make her any less pregnant if she is, but probably she isn't and she was probably on birth control.
 
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Just say “hey, you on the pill?”

That simple

I’m out here barebacking and busting nuts and you’re crying like a little girl
 
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