"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do guys pull girls with their cars

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I drive a Porsche cayenne and I didn't really know its value until recent. I had it up here for a semester, but left it at home because I can just walk everywhere.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sorry to bust your bubble, but I think it takes more than just a Porsche to pull women these days.

HO's and slvts perhaps - but not quality LTR material.

You must have the WHOLE package. Most women don't like a man showing off and bragging really - unless of course she's a showcase woman who is Self-entitled BPD and you are Narcissistically personality disordered: a couple made in heaven.

Exodus
 

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GotED? said:
Sorry to bust your bubble, but I think it takes more than just a Porsche to pull women these days.

HO's and slvts perhaps - but not quality LTR material.

You must have the WHOLE package. Most women don't like a man showing off and bragging really - unless of course she's a showcase woman who is Self-entitled BPD and you are Narcissistically personality disordered: a couple made in heaven.

Exodus
Spot on. I live in a big european city with quality public transport service, most people don't even have a car. The only woman who EVER complained about this was my BPD ex. She was entitled to it.
 

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I'm assuming you'd tie a rope to the bumper somehow. Then I'd probably tie it around her waist.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Huffman

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Espi said:
IMO girls do notice--and they do like--guys who drive expensive cars. It makes an impression.
I'm sure they do, but only if your name is Christian Grey, and you are super handsome, confident and dominating to top it off.

I'd think quality women will dig the money only if the rest is also up to par. But maybe it's just personal interest... I'm not interested in cars...
 

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Espi said:
IMO girls do notice--and they do like--guys who drive expensive cars. It makes an impression.
Yes it does...to some girls (if you know what I mean), it makes the impression that you have money...but when she realises that you don't she'll be gone in a flash.
 

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I agree with Espi, having a Porsche is a great advantage all other things being equal. Of course cars alone don't do all the pulling, but they sure as hell help.
 

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I took a new Corvette for a spin once from a friend, he rented it. I couldn't believe how many more girls looked at us, it was appalling. Yeah, they notice, but it's only base-level. You're better off being a cool mofo with an old beat-up VW who can hang with 14 girls on any given night.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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