"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do guys pull girls with their cars

Dhoulmagus

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I drive a Porsche cayenne and I didn't really know its value until recent. I had it up here for a semester, but left it at home because I can just walk everywhere.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GotED?

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Sorry to bust your bubble, but I think it takes more than just a Porsche to pull women these days.

HO's and slvts perhaps - but not quality LTR material.

You must have the WHOLE package. Most women don't like a man showing off and bragging really - unless of course she's a showcase woman who is Self-entitled BPD and you are Narcissistically personality disordered: a couple made in heaven.

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GotED? said:
Sorry to bust your bubble, but I think it takes more than just a Porsche to pull women these days.

HO's and slvts perhaps - but not quality LTR material.

You must have the WHOLE package. Most women don't like a man showing off and bragging really - unless of course she's a showcase woman who is Self-entitled BPD and you are Narcissistically personality disordered: a couple made in heaven.

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Spot on. I live in a big european city with quality public transport service, most people don't even have a car. The only woman who EVER complained about this was my BPD ex. She was entitled to it.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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I'm assuming you'd tie a rope to the bumper somehow. Then I'd probably tie it around her waist.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Huffman

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Espi said:
IMO girls do notice--and they do like--guys who drive expensive cars. It makes an impression.
I'm sure they do, but only if your name is Christian Grey, and you are super handsome, confident and dominating to top it off.

I'd think quality women will dig the money only if the rest is also up to par. But maybe it's just personal interest... I'm not interested in cars...
 

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Espi said:
IMO girls do notice--and they do like--guys who drive expensive cars. It makes an impression.
Yes it does...to some girls (if you know what I mean), it makes the impression that you have money...but when she realises that you don't she'll be gone in a flash.
 

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I agree with Espi, having a Porsche is a great advantage all other things being equal. Of course cars alone don't do all the pulling, but they sure as hell help.
 

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I took a new Corvette for a spin once from a friend, he rented it. I couldn't believe how many more girls looked at us, it was appalling. Yeah, they notice, but it's only base-level. You're better off being a cool mofo with an old beat-up VW who can hang with 14 girls on any given night.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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