Dhoulmagus
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I drive a Porsche cayenne and I didn't really know its value until recent. I had it up here for a semester, but left it at home because I can just walk everywhere.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Spot on. I live in a big european city with quality public transport service, most people don't even have a car. The only woman who EVER complained about this was my BPD ex. She was entitled to it.GotED? said:Sorry to bust your bubble, but I think it takes more than just a Porsche to pull women these days.
HO's and slvts perhaps - but not quality LTR material.
You must have the WHOLE package. Most women don't like a man showing off and bragging really - unless of course she's a showcase woman who is Self-entitled BPD and you are Narcissistically personality disordered: a couple made in heaven.
Exodus
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm sure they do, but only if your name is Christian Grey, and you are super handsome, confident and dominating to top it off.Espi said:IMO girls do notice--and they do like--guys who drive expensive cars. It makes an impression.
Yes it does...to some girls (if you know what I mean), it makes the impression that you have money...but when she realises that you don't she'll be gone in a flash.Espi said:IMO girls do notice--and they do like--guys who drive expensive cars. It makes an impression.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.