How do get a fat ***** to lose weight so you can date her

[Enjin 7]

I'm attracted to this girl on very many different levels. She is a sexy 5'9" 140 lb girl. the only problem is right now she weighs like 180.

i would like to date her but she is too fat. how can i persuade her to go lose weight? invite her to the gym with me as friends and "race" her to a better body and if she does well then i will date her?

slip diet drugs or cocaine into her food or drink?

steal all her food?

any suggestions?

 

[Gonzalo]

Originally posted by Enjin 7
I'm attracted to this girl on very many different levels. She is a sexy 5'9" 140 lb girl.

....

any suggestions?

So are you or are you not attracted to her? If you are, then her weight apparently is no problem to you, unless of course you are embarassed to show her off.

Stop trying to "fix" girls you are not in a relationship with. You can't, or better yet, you shouldn't waste your time and just go for one you are totally happy with, AS IS.

 

[Enjin 7]

haha the thing is i cant find a girl im happy with "as is" and weight is such an easy thing to fix.

im attracted to everything but her freakin fat body. face is good. body has potential. its just fat. lol

 

[Bill]

Don't try to change the girl.

Either appreciate her as she is (like you say you could) or next.

-Bill

 

[Gonzalo]

You can't find a girl who is decent looking with no weight problem? Where do you live, at the Ben&Jerry's factory?

Approach the subject with caution, and never call them fat (it will backfire, plus you can mess up anything with her hooking you up later on should you keep her as a friend).

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by Enjin 7
She is a sexy 5'9" 140 lb girl. the only problem is right now she weighs like 180.

How the hell can she weigh 140 yet, weigh 180 right now?? How do you figure? You t\gotta new way of looking at the world we're all missing out on??

 

[Enjin 7]

her ideal body weight is 140 and she weighs 180.

and to answer the location question

i live in mississippi, the ****ing fattest state in the world. besides alaska. and they have polar bears.

 

[DaKidS3]

Won't she still be like all saggy and sh*t after she loses weight? Gross.

 

[Da Realist]

Tell her so that way you'll have no chance with her and find another girl that doesn't live in Mississippi.

 

[SeldomSeen]

RE:

how do you know she'll date your ass after she loses weight? She may want to next you and find someone who isnt so caught up in her percentage of body fat and fi she gains weight again are you doing to dump her on the spot? I smell red flags.

 

[undesputable]

i dont think youll be able to pull off this one....40 lbs are not going to be that easy to loose first of all, so shes going to be willing in everyway to loose that weight, in order to make it happen.

 

[SinisaD]

Re: RE:

Originally posted by SeldomSeen
how do you know she'll date your ass after she loses weight? She may want to next you and find someone who isnt so caught up in her percentage of body fat and fi she gains weight again are you doing to dump her on the spot? I smell red flags.

I am AFC but you may ignore my opinion if you all want. But damn you hit it rite on the money SeldomSeen . I would say date her as she is now and maybe she would lose weight for ya and start gettin all spiffied up for ya too but that's just my AFC opinion.... I know not many people like it when AFC's give advices so sry

 

[SeldomSeen]

Re: Re: RE:

Originally posted by SinisaD
I am AFC but you may ignore my opinion if you all want. But damn you hit it rite on the money SeldomSeen . I would say date her as she is now and maybe she would lose weight for ya and start gettin all spiffied up for ya too but that's just my AFC opinion.... I know not many people like it when AFC's give advices so sry

Advice is advice. Doesnt matter if your AFC, NFC, NFL, in the NBA on TBS or PBS trying to seduce a woman with PMS...we all give advice. Some good, some not so good but it all comes from our experience in life. You only choose to be AFC, its a matter of mind over mind or something I dont know Im drunk

 

[SinisaD]

Re: Re: Re: RE:

Originally posted by SeldomSeen
Advice is advice. Doesnt matter if your AFC, NFC, NFL, in the NBA on TBS or PBS trying to seduce a woman with PMS...we all give advice. Some good, some not so good but it all comes from our experience in life. You only choose to be AFC, its a matter of mind over mind or something I dont know Im drunk

As most people I was driven here by a certain girl. I am currently reading over the materials and putting them in practice because I do not wish to be AFC I wish to be a DJ. I am 19 and it's a good of a time as any to start getting my life together and do what I want. O and SeldomSeen you give good advices for a drunk guy :

 

[oakraiderz2]

Re: RE:

Originally posted by SeldomSeen
how do you know she'll date your ass after she loses weight? She may want to next you and find someone who isnt so caught up in her percentage of body fat and fi she gains weight again are you doing to dump her on the spot? I smell red flags.

 

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