"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do DJs screen girls they meet?

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How do DJs screen girls they meet in bars and clubs and online? Is it possible to really screen girls djs meet in bars and clubs and online to see if they are quality?

Where do you guys mostly screen or choose to meet girls that are better qulity?

Do Djs screen locations first before they decide to screen the types of girls they are meeting?

IE: screening in a crappy bar for quality is probably a bad place to choose to screen women and if thats where you go then all youll get is crappy women and then say all women are crap.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lots of quality women are the same crap women at the bars or clubs, they are just dressed under different social contexts, IMO.

However, how you screw (edit: screen) them can tempt them to want you/ like you, hence become less crappy by your design.
 
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Night-hawk said:
Lots of quality women are the same crap women at the bars or clubs, they are just dressed under different social contexts, IMO.

However, how you screw (edit: screen) them can tempt them to want you/ like you, hence become less crappy by your design.
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so picking up girls in bars and clubs or even strip clubs is the same as screening girls you meet in a social cirlce? as in they are all no good no matter where you choose to meet them?
 
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That's not entirely what I'm saying, no. You screen a girl to ensure she meets your criteria for whatever it is you are looking for, be that ons, fwb, str, or ltr material. However don't be fooled by the societal environment you find her in...because essentially how you screen her will either make location, etc., relevant or not.
 
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my quick 30 second test is .....

so do you get along with your parents ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My big thing is if they have a lot of orbiters, exes in the picture, etc. I wouldn't consider a relationship with a girl that's just out of one or who is still in regular contact with the ex. FWB or FB yes.
 
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