Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do DJs screen girls they meet?

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How do DJs screen girls they meet in bars and clubs and online? Is it possible to really screen girls djs meet in bars and clubs and online to see if they are quality?

Where do you guys mostly screen or choose to meet girls that are better qulity?

Do Djs screen locations first before they decide to screen the types of girls they are meeting?

IE: screening in a crappy bar for quality is probably a bad place to choose to screen women and if thats where you go then all youll get is crappy women and then say all women are crap.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lots of quality women are the same crap women at the bars or clubs, they are just dressed under different social contexts, IMO.

However, how you screw (edit: screen) them can tempt them to want you/ like you, hence become less crappy by your design.
 
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Night-hawk said:
Lots of quality women are the same crap women at the bars or clubs, they are just dressed under different social contexts, IMO.

However, how you screw (edit: screen) them can tempt them to want you/ like you, hence become less crappy by your design.
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so picking up girls in bars and clubs or even strip clubs is the same as screening girls you meet in a social cirlce? as in they are all no good no matter where you choose to meet them?
 
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That's not entirely what I'm saying, no. You screen a girl to ensure she meets your criteria for whatever it is you are looking for, be that ons, fwb, str, or ltr material. However don't be fooled by the societal environment you find her in...because essentially how you screen her will either make location, etc., relevant or not.
 
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my quick 30 second test is .....

so do you get along with your parents ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My big thing is if they have a lot of orbiters, exes in the picture, etc. I wouldn't consider a relationship with a girl that's just out of one or who is still in regular contact with the ex. FWB or FB yes.
 
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