"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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How do DJs screen girls they meet?

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How do DJs screen girls they meet in bars and clubs and online? Is it possible to really screen girls djs meet in bars and clubs and online to see if they are quality?

Where do you guys mostly screen or choose to meet girls that are better qulity?

Do Djs screen locations first before they decide to screen the types of girls they are meeting?

IE: screening in a crappy bar for quality is probably a bad place to choose to screen women and if thats where you go then all youll get is crappy women and then say all women are crap.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lots of quality women are the same crap women at the bars or clubs, they are just dressed under different social contexts, IMO.

However, how you screw (edit: screen) them can tempt them to want you/ like you, hence become less crappy by your design.
 
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Night-hawk said:
Lots of quality women are the same crap women at the bars or clubs, they are just dressed under different social contexts, IMO.

However, how you screw (edit: screen) them can tempt them to want you/ like you, hence become less crappy by your design.
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so picking up girls in bars and clubs or even strip clubs is the same as screening girls you meet in a social cirlce? as in they are all no good no matter where you choose to meet them?
 
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That's not entirely what I'm saying, no. You screen a girl to ensure she meets your criteria for whatever it is you are looking for, be that ons, fwb, str, or ltr material. However don't be fooled by the societal environment you find her in...because essentially how you screen her will either make location, etc., relevant or not.
 
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my quick 30 second test is .....

so do you get along with your parents ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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My big thing is if they have a lot of orbiters, exes in the picture, etc. I wouldn't consider a relationship with a girl that's just out of one or who is still in regular contact with the ex. FWB or FB yes.
 
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