How disrespectful was this?

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Be a man. If you say something stick to it. Don't bend it. Don't be passive aggressive (doing the same thing she does). Stick to your damn words. Don't commit the same sin Adam did in the garden of Eden.

 

[Serg897]

As is typical on this forum I find the calls for dumping her a bit premature. However, if this is bothering you you need to take action to make sure she gets the message that this sort of behavior wont be tolerated.

The number one important thing here is to keep your cool. Getting angry or jealous is not going to be attractive to her.

I agree with the other posters here that say you should withdraw some attention and start hanging out with other females. Start putting your eggs in other baskets. If/when she calls you out on it, simply bring up this example. She will get the message. If she seems NOT to care, then her interest is low and you need to drop her.

 

[floydb25]

i could care less if she is lying or not. that's not the point. you don't go out with other guys if you are exclusive. friend or not.

don't let her switch the game up by getting you worried about did she or did she not.

Yeah... Don't let her get away with this kind of crap, either. Even if it is a test - its to see what she can get away with. You don't want to be in a position where its only ok if she does this, but not you. That's how a lot of guys lose the control, and their balls. Sadly, its all a game of power. If you do it - she goes ape****. If she does it - you're jealous and over-reactive. Nonsense. Don't let her turn things around to her advantage. Better yet - just get rid of her. She's either playing you or playing crap games. Neither is worth it. She sounds immature.

 

[the_stig]

This reminds of a comment she made last week. She asks why I don't want to have sex as often as I used to, which I brush it off without an answer, so she mutters "Guess I'll have to get it somewhere else then". I stare her down and say "WHAT?!" but she sarcastically says she didn't mean it. Could be nothing, could be everything...

 

[floydb25]

Definitely sounds like a winner. This girl sounds like a child, dude.

 

[backbreaker]

Yeah... Don't let her get away with this kind of crap, either. Even if it is a test - its to see what she can get away with. You don't want to be in a position where its only ok if she does this, but not you. That's how a lot of guys lose the control, and their balls. Sadly, its all a game of power. If you do it - she goes ape****. If she does it - you're jealous and over-reactive. Nonsense. Don't let her turn things around to her advantage. Better yet - just get rid of her. She's either playing you or playing crap games. Neither is worth it. She sounds immature.

AFC's tend to be more defensive coordinators when girls act. they want try to not look this or don't come off at that. F that. the ***** went out with another dude, and is just acting immature alltogether. she needs to go and f you had more plates, you wouldn't be considering this broad in the first place.

there is just a certain level of respect i expect from my GIRLFRIEND. which is why, i am not quick to make every girl i dated my GF. I only dated, seriously 3 girls since i have been grown and i'm married to one of them.

if it's a girl i'm just fvcking i wouldn't think twice about it. i'd just say oh well i will still f you but i'm not going to date you. but if it's a girl that widdled through all my plates and **** test that were thrown to her and showed me she was GF material.. lol first of all she would know better, but assuming she did she would do so knowing full damn well what would happen.

my wife has male friends. not male friends but, she's in the past, gone out ot eat to catch up with guys and **** like that. the difference being she's actually asked me if it were okay before hand. no sneaking around and ****.

lol you dont 'think for one second she doesn't know what she did doesn't look right? she konws. i promise you she knows.

 

[BigSmooth]

From what you just described, it seems like there likely is something going on between the two.

1. You don't call some other guy "babe" when your boyfriend is right there.


When that incident occurred, you should have said "so he's your babe now huh? I'm guessing he upgraded from chump status. I better watch out, it looks like I have some competition."

Play it cool and calm, but do not be passive. Speak up, take control, act like it's no big deal, but speak up.

 

[the_great_gaia]

Give her your a$$ to kiss. I'd start spinning plates ASAP. You never know whats on her mind when your back is turned.. she has already worn another guy's sweater on hers.