"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How did you find this website?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cloudtopsun2100

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I used to be a real nice guy who was the epitome of an AFC. I realized that alot of guy got more PUS than me.....after class I'd go to the language lab and surf the net-- finally instead of looking at sports I just did random searches for macking advice...I came across this site and several others-- took me about 10 visits over 6 months for me to become a regular-- a regular ghost that is since I got all I needed from browsing the bible and cool posts by player supreme, diablo, H20, and some others if memory serves me right..then started getting pus and was happy but finally in fall of 2004 I dated a skilled playette who was at a higher level than me in terms of game-- since then we have broke up and I have been doing much better with the PUA thing--- I thought I was good till my friend who is 30 told me he banged 160 girls in the last 8 years....ha time to study more
 

Lompa

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I was the most AFC guy you would have known;
i looked like a tank (BMI=31) i would play the pc for around 8 hours a day.
One day, i went to a training camp at the chezch republic. During those five days i have lost five KG and kept loosing wait untill i have lost 20kg.

If i liked someone at that period i would do everything to make them happy and help them. Once i even made something in flash that said "xxx will you be my gf" answer was "no".

Now we are in the current time:
I browsed sw.net (some forum) and i saw someone that gave a guide how to get the girl of your dreams Yodel yodel yodel and than i post in the forum a topic named "i need help= Don juan site or something" got the link to this site and after 2 weeks i started reading the DJ bible. I read it for around 2 weeks with no stops.

Thats all folks.
 

sanyo7878

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I googled something about depression and not being able to get a girlfriend and found this site. It has definitely changed my life. If I had discovered this site a year earlier I would definitely have had the opportunity build a relationship with or atleast get some action with two different girls. I blew the opportunities both times (i went out on multiple dates with these girls and they were obviously interested in me but i never made a move... one of them even asked me to kiss her, they both eventually gave up on me). I used to be a pathetic AFC. I now consider myself a recovering AFC, lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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