"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

How did you find this website?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Cloudtopsun2100

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2004
Messages
340
Reaction score
42
Location
KC
I used to be a real nice guy who was the epitome of an AFC. I realized that alot of guy got more PUS than me.....after class I'd go to the language lab and surf the net-- finally instead of looking at sports I just did random searches for macking advice...I came across this site and several others-- took me about 10 visits over 6 months for me to become a regular-- a regular ghost that is since I got all I needed from browsing the bible and cool posts by player supreme, diablo, H20, and some others if memory serves me right..then started getting pus and was happy but finally in fall of 2004 I dated a skilled playette who was at a higher level than me in terms of game-- since then we have broke up and I have been doing much better with the PUA thing--- I thought I was good till my friend who is 30 told me he banged 160 girls in the last 8 years....ha time to study more
 

Lompa

Banned
Joined
Nov 27, 2006
Messages
94
Reaction score
1
Location
Israel
I was the most AFC guy you would have known;
i looked like a tank (BMI=31) i would play the pc for around 8 hours a day.
One day, i went to a training camp at the chezch republic. During those five days i have lost five KG and kept loosing wait untill i have lost 20kg.

If i liked someone at that period i would do everything to make them happy and help them. Once i even made something in flash that said "xxx will you be my gf" answer was "no".

Now we are in the current time:
I browsed sw.net (some forum) and i saw someone that gave a guide how to get the girl of your dreams Yodel yodel yodel and than i post in the forum a topic named "i need help= Don juan site or something" got the link to this site and after 2 weeks i started reading the DJ bible. I read it for around 2 weeks with no stops.

Thats all folks.
 

sanyo7878

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2006
Messages
91
Reaction score
1
I googled something about depression and not being able to get a girlfriend and found this site. It has definitely changed my life. If I had discovered this site a year earlier I would definitely have had the opportunity build a relationship with or atleast get some action with two different girls. I blew the opportunities both times (i went out on multiple dates with these girls and they were obviously interested in me but i never made a move... one of them even asked me to kiss her, they both eventually gave up on me). I used to be a pathetic AFC. I now consider myself a recovering AFC, lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Top