"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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toasttopper1879

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Recently spoke to a girl.She tells me that a guy she knows has called her asking if he can stay at her place overnight as he cant get home.She knows this guy has interest in her.
She,s told me that she would allow me to sleep on her sofa but she wont let the other guy because she fears he may have thoughts of sleeping in her bed.
Now have i just been dumped firmly into her friend zone or should i make a excuse and get round to her place n test her sofa.
For the record my reply was,no I'll want to sleep in your bed,you'll be on the sofa.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Good Answer. Going and hanging out at her place for the night would be a good time to make a move on her, if you are interested. By the way, what was the reason why shewould need you there in the first place?
 

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the reason came about cos our cities football team had played away from home that night and thousands of us were arriving back home in the early hours of the morn.This girl lives close to the city centre where the coaches were dropping supporters off.I'd been away and i presume the other guy had also.I like everyone else normal,just wanted to get a taxi home as it was 4am and with work the next morn i was a bit on the tired side.
 

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Aye lol.The game us invented almost 200 years ago and called football,until America decided to change it to soccer. The word soccer in England is taboo.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just asking cuz here in South America they call soccer football( which is very logical) as well. It is just that I have heard, but not seen that there is a European league of American football, and I thought tht England, if this really did exist, probabely participated in it.
 

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Theres little to no interest in american football in this country.It was tried in the 80,s but did nt get any support.Our two codes of rugby are similar but we dont bother with the padding and the game moves more freely.
 

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Rugby looks like an awesome game. I have some ozzies that are my friends and they play rugby a lot. They tell me it is fun. I'd give it a shot.
 
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