"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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toasttopper1879

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Recently spoke to a girl.She tells me that a guy she knows has called her asking if he can stay at her place overnight as he cant get home.She knows this guy has interest in her.
She,s told me that she would allow me to sleep on her sofa but she wont let the other guy because she fears he may have thoughts of sleeping in her bed.
Now have i just been dumped firmly into her friend zone or should i make a excuse and get round to her place n test her sofa.
For the record my reply was,no I'll want to sleep in your bed,you'll be on the sofa.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good Answer. Going and hanging out at her place for the night would be a good time to make a move on her, if you are interested. By the way, what was the reason why shewould need you there in the first place?
 

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the reason came about cos our cities football team had played away from home that night and thousands of us were arriving back home in the early hours of the morn.This girl lives close to the city centre where the coaches were dropping supporters off.I'd been away and i presume the other guy had also.I like everyone else normal,just wanted to get a taxi home as it was 4am and with work the next morn i was a bit on the tired side.
 

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Aye lol.The game us invented almost 200 years ago and called football,until America decided to change it to soccer. The word soccer in England is taboo.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just asking cuz here in South America they call soccer football( which is very logical) as well. It is just that I have heard, but not seen that there is a European league of American football, and I thought tht England, if this really did exist, probabely participated in it.
 

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Theres little to no interest in american football in this country.It was tried in the 80,s but did nt get any support.Our two codes of rugby are similar but we dont bother with the padding and the game moves more freely.
 

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Rugby looks like an awesome game. I have some ozzies that are my friends and they play rugby a lot. They tell me it is fun. I'd give it a shot.
 
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