niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
I had a minor argument with a plate.. I challenged her.. how did I handle it? She sent 3 messages I sent the last 2.
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How did I handle this?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Well number one, don't use texts like that. Texting is cancer to attraction. I'm not sure what the context is, what is she trying to do? It seems though you whined about a lack of attention from her which is a bit weak, then tried to regain frame and it looks like you mostly failed. You should have just withdrew your attention as that is the best currency you have early on.
It's really hard to tell exactly what's going on with context and previous messages though.
It's really hard to tell exactly what's going on with context and previous messages though.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
I hardly text her only to set up dates.. she sent me a pointless text message about someone house burning down.. I don't even like the person nor would I care... I've told her in the past I don't like being hassled with text messages.. she just said what I said lol
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
No I went no contact and she messaged me first
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I just don't get the point then. Just ignore the text, block her number. If a girl is contacting you then you want to encourage it, not make her afraid to text you. Replying when you feel like it is fine, but punishing her for it doesn't make sense if you want her as a plate.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
No I didn't punish her.. just said her text was pointless.. then she started raving on lol kinda put her knickers in a knot lol
Most of chicks drivel is pointless. The points is that she is still reaching out. And you're meant to at least pretend to have feelings. Whether or not you like the person a couple of words of sympathy about somebody's house Burning Down would probably have played well. Mate I hope this is just you having an off day.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Yeah I'm having a really bad day crashed my car and everything
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Yes I do act as if I don't careIt's nice being young and stupid.
The things we do and lie being not affected, brings back fond memories
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
I just apologized to her said I'm having a bad day... Now I'm getting the silent treatment lolIt's nice being young and stupid.
The things we do and lie being not affected, brings back fond memories
Relax, I get the feeling you'll do just fine.
The only people that don't have any problems are those people 6 feet under in the cemetery.
Life is good. Read DJ bible to strengthen your frame.
Frame is everything.
Frame(how u think) + methods(how u do things) = results you get.
The only people that don't have any problems are those people 6 feet under in the cemetery.
Life is good. Read DJ bible to strengthen your frame.
Frame is everything.
Frame(how u think) + methods(how u do things) = results you get.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
I'm getting the silent treatment now lol do I just leave her alone for a while?
RichardTheFrog
Banned
This is so juvenile, it's ridiculous
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
He's getting better then you ever did, perhaps you could up your game by being juvenile and improving from there
For now just read the DJ bible, let things cool off 1st.
You've made your apology and that's done. The ball is in her court now.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Thank you Richard the frog has Been acting like a ****head latelyHe's getting better then you ever did, perhaps you could up your game by being juvenile and improving from there
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Or not.He's getting better then you ever did, perhaps you could up your game by being juvenile and improving from there
Thanks, though.
If "game" means going back to the 3rd grade, then you can count me out!!!
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
At least I get p.u.s.s.y. unlike you
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.