niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
I had a minor argument with a plate.. I challenged her.. how did I handle it? She sent 3 messages I sent the last 2.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How did I handle this?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well number one, don't use texts like that. Texting is cancer to attraction. I'm not sure what the context is, what is she trying to do? It seems though you whined about a lack of attention from her which is a bit weak, then tried to regain frame and it looks like you mostly failed. You should have just withdrew your attention as that is the best currency you have early on.
It's really hard to tell exactly what's going on with context and previous messages though.
It's really hard to tell exactly what's going on with context and previous messages though.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
I hardly text her only to set up dates.. she sent me a pointless text message about someone house burning down.. I don't even like the person nor would I care... I've told her in the past I don't like being hassled with text messages.. she just said what I said lol
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
No I went no contact and she messaged me first
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I just don't get the point then. Just ignore the text, block her number. If a girl is contacting you then you want to encourage it, not make her afraid to text you. Replying when you feel like it is fine, but punishing her for it doesn't make sense if you want her as a plate.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
No I didn't punish her.. just said her text was pointless.. then she started raving on lol kinda put her knickers in a knot lol
Most of chicks drivel is pointless. The points is that she is still reaching out. And you're meant to at least pretend to have feelings. Whether or not you like the person a couple of words of sympathy about somebody's house Burning Down would probably have played well. Mate I hope this is just you having an off day.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Yeah I'm having a really bad day crashed my car and everything
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Yes I do act as if I don't careIt's nice being young and stupid.
The things we do and lie being not affected, brings back fond memories
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
I just apologized to her said I'm having a bad day... Now I'm getting the silent treatment lolIt's nice being young and stupid.
The things we do and lie being not affected, brings back fond memories
Relax, I get the feeling you'll do just fine.
The only people that don't have any problems are those people 6 feet under in the cemetery.
Life is good. Read DJ bible to strengthen your frame.
Frame is everything.
Frame(how u think) + methods(how u do things) = results you get.
The only people that don't have any problems are those people 6 feet under in the cemetery.
Life is good. Read DJ bible to strengthen your frame.
Frame is everything.
Frame(how u think) + methods(how u do things) = results you get.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
I'm getting the silent treatment now lol do I just leave her alone for a while?
RichardTheFrog
Banned
This is so juvenile, it's ridiculous
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
He's getting better then you ever did, perhaps you could up your game by being juvenile and improving from there
For now just read the DJ bible, let things cool off 1st.
You've made your apology and that's done. The ball is in her court now.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Thank you Richard the frog has Been acting like a ****head latelyHe's getting better then you ever did, perhaps you could up your game by being juvenile and improving from there
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Or not.He's getting better then you ever did, perhaps you could up your game by being juvenile and improving from there
Thanks, though.
If "game" means going back to the 3rd grade, then you can count me out!!!
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
At least I get p.u.s.s.y. unlike you
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