"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How did I do - Part 2 UPDATE!!!

Smoothaswetsoap

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This is an update with the same girl in "How did I do?"...

I called the chick today to say happy thanksgiving and to see what she was doing tonight... she didn't pick up.

She returned my phone call about 1.5 hours later asking whats up.

Convo:

"Hey Mary"

*"Hey, whats up, you called?"

"Yeah I was wondering if you wanted to go somewhere with me and my friends"

*"Who's us?"

"My friends"

*"Who are they"

"You don't know them"

-I quickly change the subject, "Happy Thanksgiving, what are you doing tomorrow?"

*"I have to stay home to take care of my grandparents, they're sick"

"Oh that sucks..."

*"Yeah..."

-Out of nowhere, here comes the jealousy test again...

*"I heard you and your friend were fighting over me"

-She complimented my friend, (just like she complimented everyone) and he's a total AFC so he took it WAYYYY to serious...

"What? who told you this?"

*"My sources"

"Well, your sources are living a fairy tale"

*"Whats that suppose to mean? You don't like me?"

"I didn't say that, but we didn't fight over you"

*"So do you like me?"

"Uhhmmm... you are an attractice girl, it's just that..."

Long 3 second eerie silence

"You have a boyfriend, and it's weird"

*"What do you mean it's weird?

"You have a boyfriend and all..."

*"If I didn't have a boyfriend, would you like me?"

"It would be different"

*"Well, I gotta go so call me later on..."

"Later on?" - It was about 10 a clock so...

*"Like tomorrow or something"

I wasn't smooth or anything like that, and should've put some pressure on her... but whatever.

Question is... do I call her in few days and ask her on a get together? Get to know her a little bit more?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Smoothaswetsoap
Question is... do I call her in few days and ask her on a get together? Get to know her a little bit more?
F*** no! she's an attention wh*re whose done nothing but sh*t test you. If you do anything at all you have to bust her for being a btich and freze her out for two weeks. No woman is going to swallow the semen of a man she doesn't respect.
 

Nocturnal

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You didn't screw up (at least with that conversation), but she's definitely not head over heels for you. In a nutshell, don't even bother with her. Like Walden said, she doesn't respect you, so that alone should tell you to cut her loose.

By the way, stop having conversations on the phone.
 

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if a girl gives you a **** test, just overdo your response. make sure it's dripping with sarcasm.

"so do you like me?"
"yeah. I can't sleep at night. sometimes I have to get up, and I just cry because I yearn for you so bad. I can't help but think about your slightly uneven haircut or your freakishly tiny hands..."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mr. Debonaire

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Originally posted by Porky
"yeah. I can't sleep at night. sometimes I have to get up, and I just cry because I yearn for you so bad. I can't help but think about your slightly uneven haircut or your freakishly tiny hands..."
hahaha thats the best thing i ever heard :D
 

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Her grandparents are fine.

She's not interested.

She just likes to see if she can have an affect on men. She uses them to boost her ego.

Obviously if her grandparents were really BOTH ill, fat chance, it would either be something serious enought to warrant hospitalization, or something minor. And if it's minor, I'd like to think that two grown adults can handle it.

You got played like a fiddle, and now she's just enjoying rejecting you over and over and watching you come back for another kick in the nuts.
 
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