"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How Damaging Is Porn Addiction?

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Hello guys..

How do you feel about Porn?

Can it damage your relationship, and can it effect the way you choose a partner?

For example, are you more likely to choose a hot sexy, porn type girl.. over a quality girl with morals..

What are your thoughts about porn?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Psst....it's not real...we're all just fooling the wang! Shhh...don't let the wang know!
 

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Hello guys..

How do you feel about Porn?

Can it damage your relationship, and can it effect the way you choose a partner?

For example, are you more likely to choose a hot sexy, porn type girl.. over a quality girl with morals..

What are your thoughts about porn?
Some people who indulge in porn and masturbation frequently can experience porn-induced erectile dysfunction, which is basically accustoming your brain to higher and higher doses of dopamine rushes by watching more extreme pornographic content more often. You literally can watch a new vid or see a new woman naked with the swipe of a finger. Eventually your brain becomes conditioned to being exposed to new content rapidly and builds a tolerance in order to reach those previous dopamine "highs". So when it comes down to a real woman and real sex, it is a vanilla experience to your brain (compared to the porn) and can problems getting or staying aroused.

I don't believe it effects your choice of women but I do believe it can negatively impact a relationship if your tool ain't working at its maximum potential.
 

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If you're still spanking the monkey when you have a regular girlfriend you probably have the wrong girl. In dry spells I'd suggest you should at least every two weeks for prostate health. But yeah noFAP is definitely going to give you more motivation energy and testosterone for the chase
 

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If you're still spanking the monkey when you have a regular girlfriend you probably have the wrong girl. In dry spells I'd suggest you should at least every two weeks for prostate health. But yeah noFAP is definitely going to give you more motivation energy and testosterone for the chase
Yeah, I imagine, I'd be too busy making the wife see stars!!! Porn would be a thing of the past.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Depends on the place it's coming from.

Are you fappin cuz your a loser without hot girls and coping?

Or you tired of the daily grind of railing these hoes and just need me time.
 

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If you're still spanking the monkey when you have a regular girlfriend you probably have the wrong girl.
  • I disagree. Having a girlfriend simply takes the guilt out of the masturbation.
  • Half the time when I live with a girl I'll send her to the grocery store or something so I can finally be satisfied.
  • With my current girl, I honestly sometimes masturbate and look at her selfies.
  • You know your girl is hot when you prefer her photos to porn.
  • My favorite porn star is Chloe Couture who is a doppleganger for my girlfriend.
  • "I KNOW what I like, and I'm REAL good" - Anonymous comedian on masturbation circa 1991
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've watched it when it was posted before. And I remember being given the impression that the guy is an obvious blue-pill pvssy.

Has no bearing on my value system at all.
Well yeah the guy is a bit of a nerd but the information is on point for guys wondering about porn addiction which is what the OP asked....
 

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Hello guys..

How do you feel about Porn?

Can it damage your relationship, and can it effect the way you choose a partner?

For example, are you more likely to choose a hot sexy, porn type girl.. over a quality girl with morals..

What are your thoughts about porn?
Not only will it affect your relationships, and possible future relationships, but it will affect you! A question that needs to be asked today is whether addiction is becoming the norm. If so, God help us. Besides, is not the DJ supposed to be a free spirit?
 

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Approaching women and spinning plates creates massive dopamine hits too.

Point is that the mangina is worried about men not being able to commit to things like marriage.

To which, my response is: who gives a fvck?
He's explaining how porn rewires your brain. His opinion on how to best meet women is irrelevant.
 
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I'm glad I read this thread. I have basically had ED since I was sexually active. I would sit around and not be able to get it hard, until randomly it would work when it wanted to. I always attributed this to anxiety, but after reading this, I think it might have been the porn I watched since I was 11.

I solved the ED problem by accident when I started doing LSD when I was 21. But then when I stopped, the problem came back so I started using Viagra. Then, last October I got a silicone girth injection and Viagra worked a few times after, but then stopped working. I'm not sure if I grew tolerant to the Viagra, or if the silicone injection messed me up. So then I had to get a penile implant which is a device that allows you to pump your **** full of salt water and it gets hard for as long as you want it.
 

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I'm glad I read this thread. I have basically had ED since I was sexually active. I would sit around and not be able to get it hard, until randomly it would work when it wanted to. I always attributed this to anxiety, but after reading this, I think it might have been the porn I watched since I was 11.

I solved the ED problem by accident when I started doing LSD when I was 21. But then when I stopped, the problem came back so I started using Viagra. Then, last October I got a silicone girth injection and Viagra worked a few times after, but then stopped working. I'm not sure if I grew tolerant to the Viagra, or if the silicone injection messed me up. So then I had to get a penile implant which is a device that allows you to pump your **** full of salt water and it gets hard for as long as you want it.
do you watch porn?

EDIT:
You say you've been watching it since your 11. That's not good. Try laying off for 90 days and watch what happens.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've watched it when it was posted before. And I remember being given the impression that the guy is an obvious blue-pill pvssy.

Has no bearing on my value system at all.
Well yeah the guy is a bit of a nerd but the information is on point for guys wondering about porn addiction which is what the OP asked....
That video shows how porn can caused porn-induced erectile dysfunction. Which is a real thing. I had it, and my ability to get and maintain erections improved significantly when I cut down my use of porn.

@deesade Do think the claims in the video are bullsh!t?

I'm not anti-porn or anti-masturbation, but I've personally experienced poor erection quality due to frequent porn use... I don't get performance anxiety (even mentally) and my body chemistry is fine... porn-induced erectile dysfunction was the only possibility, i confirmed it when I laid off the porn for awhile and my ED reversed itself eventually..

My point I guess is this thread is about potential consequences of porn use and I think ED is important to mention as a lot of men aren't aware that their porn use may be causing it
 
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do you watch porn?
I still do, yes. Sometimes, I find it preferable to trying to start conversations with strangers at bars that I know nothing about.

I also have a criminal record that I would have to explain to any girl unless it was just a ONS that I never told her my last name. Plus, girls talk so once one of them knows about my record, they all will. And that criminal record is probably the #1 game killer I have right now.
 

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I still do, yes. Sometimes, I find it preferable to trying to start conversations with strangers at bars that I know nothing about.

I also have a criminal record that I would have to explain to any girl unless it was just a ONS that I never told her my last name. Plus, girls talk so once one of them knows about my record, they all will. And that criminal record is probably the #1 game killer I have right now.
lol c'mon man are you trolling here or being serious..
 
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lol c'mon man are you trolling here or being serious..
100% serious. I committed a crime that was on national television and actually made news around the world. 100% serious.

I'll probably just change my name, but I have to wait until 2022 to do that. But I do have a girl I talk to right now and she doesn't care, but it's long-distance.

But for example, I was at Hooters yesterday and I'm just a normal, nice person now, but I know that my chances of being with any of those girls are not very good once they find out I've been to prison. No matter how rich I get or how many Bentley's I buy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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