"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

How Damaging Is Porn Addiction?

Thread starter soulforge
Start date Jun 9, 2017

soulforge

Master Don Juan

#1

Hello guys..

How do you feel about Porn?

Can it damage your relationship, and can it effect the way you choose a partner?

For example, are you more likely to choose a hot sexy, porn type girl.. over a quality girl with morals..

What are your thoughts about porn?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

wifehunter

Master Don Juan

#2

Psst....it's not real...we're all just fooling the wang! Shhh...don't let the wang know!

TheProspect

Moderator

#3

soulforge said:
Hello guys..

How do you feel about Porn?

Can it damage your relationship, and can it effect the way you choose a partner?

For example, are you more likely to choose a hot sexy, porn type girl.. over a quality girl with morals..

What are your thoughts about porn?

Some people who indulge in porn and masturbation frequently can experience porn-induced erectile dysfunction, which is basically accustoming your brain to higher and higher doses of dopamine rushes by watching more extreme pornographic content more often. You literally can watch a new vid or see a new woman naked with the swipe of a finger. Eventually your brain becomes conditioned to being exposed to new content rapidly and builds a tolerance in order to reach those previous dopamine "highs". So when it comes down to a real woman and real sex, it is a vanilla experience to your brain (compared to the porn) and can problems getting or staying aroused.

I don't believe it effects your choice of women but I do believe it can negatively impact a relationship if your tool ain't working at its maximum potential.

ubercat

Master Don Juan

#4

If you're still spanking the monkey when you have a regular girlfriend you probably have the wrong girl. In dry spells I'd suggest you should at least every two weeks for prostate health. But yeah noFAP is definitely going to give you more motivation energy and testosterone for the chase

wifehunter

Master Don Juan

#5

ubercat said:
If you're still spanking the monkey when you have a regular girlfriend you probably have the wrong girl. In dry spells I'd suggest you should at least every two weeks for prostate health. But yeah noFAP is definitely going to give you more motivation energy and testosterone for the chase

Yeah, I imagine, I'd be too busy making the wife see stars!!! Porn would be a thing of the past.

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

ubercat

Master Don Juan

#6

And face it mate at our age who would have energy for both.

Chev.Chelios

Master Don Juan

#7

Depends on the place it's coming from.

Are you fappin cuz your a loser without hot girls and coping?

Or you tired of the daily grind of railing these hoes and just need me time.

bigneil

Banned

#8

ubercat said:
If you're still spanking the monkey when you have a regular girlfriend you probably have the wrong girl.

I disagree. Having a girlfriend simply takes the guilt out of the masturbation.
Half the time when I live with a girl I'll send her to the grocery store or something so I can finally be satisfied.
With my current girl, I honestly sometimes masturbate and look at her selfies.
You know your girl is hot when you prefer her photos to porn.
My favorite porn star is Chloe Couture who is a doppleganger for my girlfriend.
"I KNOW what I like, and I'm REAL good" - Anonymous comedian on masturbation circa 1991

btownbuck2012

Master Don Juan

#9

btownbuck2012

Master Don Juan

#10

deesade said:
Proper mangina.

No...

Did you watch the video?

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

btownbuck2012

Master Don Juan

#11

deesade said:
I've watched it when it was posted before. And I remember being given the impression that the guy is an obvious blue-pill pvssy.

Has no bearing on my value system at all.

Well yeah the guy is a bit of a nerd but the information is on point for guys wondering about porn addiction which is what the OP asked....

ChristopherColumbus

Master Don Juan

#12

soulforge said:
Hello guys..

How do you feel about Porn?

Can it damage your relationship, and can it effect the way you choose a partner?

For example, are you more likely to choose a hot sexy, porn type girl.. over a quality girl with morals..

What are your thoughts about porn?

Not only will it affect your relationships, and possible future relationships, but it will affect you! A question that needs to be asked today is whether addiction is becoming the norm. If so, God help us. Besides, is not the DJ supposed to be a free spirit?

btownbuck2012

Master Don Juan

#13

deesade said:
Approaching women and spinning plates creates massive dopamine hits too.

Point is that the mangina is worried about men not being able to commit to things like marriage.

To which, my response is: who gives a fvck?

He's explaining how porn rewires your brain. His opinion on how to best meet women is irrelevant.

R

RichardTheFrog

Banned

#14

I'm glad I read this thread. I have basically had ED since I was sexually active. I would sit around and not be able to get it hard, until randomly it would work when it wanted to. I always attributed this to anxiety, but after reading this, I think it might have been the porn I watched since I was 11.

I solved the ED problem by accident when I started doing LSD when I was 21. But then when I stopped, the problem came back so I started using Viagra. Then, last October I got a silicone girth injection and Viagra worked a few times after, but then stopped working. I'm not sure if I grew tolerant to the Viagra, or if the silicone injection messed me up. So then I had to get a penile implant which is a device that allows you to pump your **** full of salt water and it gets hard for as long as you want it.

btownbuck2012

Master Don Juan

#15

RichardTheFrog said:
I'm glad I read this thread. I have basically had ED since I was sexually active. I would sit around and not be able to get it hard, until randomly it would work when it wanted to. I always attributed this to anxiety, but after reading this, I think it might have been the porn I watched since I was 11.

I solved the ED problem by accident when I started doing LSD when I was 21. But then when I stopped, the problem came back so I started using Viagra. Then, last October I got a silicone girth injection and Viagra worked a few times after, but then stopped working. I'm not sure if I grew tolerant to the Viagra, or if the silicone injection messed me up. So then I had to get a penile implant which is a device that allows you to pump your **** full of salt water and it gets hard for as long as you want it.

do you watch porn?

EDIT:
You say you've been watching it since your 11. That's not good. Try laying off for 90 days and watch what happens.

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

TheProspect

Moderator

#16

deesade said:
I've watched it when it was posted before. And I remember being given the impression that the guy is an obvious blue-pill pvssy.

Has no bearing on my value system at all.

btownbuck2012 said:
Well yeah the guy is a bit of a nerd but the information is on point for guys wondering about porn addiction which is what the OP asked....

That video shows how porn can caused porn-induced erectile dysfunction. Which is a real thing. I had it, and my ability to get and maintain erections improved significantly when I cut down my use of porn.

@deesade Do think the claims in the video are bullsh!t?

I'm not anti-porn or anti-masturbation, but I've personally experienced poor erection quality due to frequent porn use... I don't get performance anxiety (even mentally) and my body chemistry is fine... porn-induced erectile dysfunction was the only possibility, i confirmed it when I laid off the porn for awhile and my ED reversed itself eventually..

My point I guess is this thread is about potential consequences of porn use and I think ED is important to mention as a lot of men aren't aware that their porn use may be causing it

R

RichardTheFrog

Banned

#17

btownbuck2012 said:
do you watch porn?

I still do, yes. Sometimes, I find it preferable to trying to start conversations with strangers at bars that I know nothing about.

I also have a criminal record that I would have to explain to any girl unless it was just a ONS that I never told her my last name. Plus, girls talk so once one of them knows about my record, they all will. And that criminal record is probably the #1 game killer I have right now.

btownbuck2012

Master Don Juan

#18

RichardTheFrog said:
I still do, yes. Sometimes, I find it preferable to trying to start conversations with strangers at bars that I know nothing about.

I also have a criminal record that I would have to explain to any girl unless it was just a ONS that I never told her my last name. Plus, girls talk so once one of them knows about my record, they all will. And that criminal record is probably the #1 game killer I have right now.

lol c'mon man are you trolling here or being serious..

R

RichardTheFrog

Banned

#19

btownbuck2012 said:
lol c'mon man are you trolling here or being serious..

100% serious. I committed a crime that was on national television and actually made news around the world. 100% serious.

I'll probably just change my name, but I have to wait until 2022 to do that. But I do have a girl I talk to right now and she doesn't care, but it's long-distance.

But for example, I was at Hooters yesterday and I'm just a normal, nice person now, but I know that my chances of being with any of those girls are not very good once they find out I've been to prison. No matter how rich I get or how many Bentley's I buy.

R

RichardTheFrog

Banned

#20

btownbuck2012 said:
do you watch porn?

EDIT:
You say you've been watching it since your 11. That's not good. Try laying off for 90 days and watch what happens.

Too late now. I already got the implant. I like it, though.

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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