I'm very confident and that's based on feedback from approximately 60 women I've been with over the last 2-3 years. I can assure you when I was married and never getting any I had zero confidence in that area. Getting my body in great shape was a big confidence boost. Also I'm pretty kinky (which women love) and that makes things very exciting for women as I hear all about the other boring, bad in bed guys they've been with. I got into swinging as a Bull for a while and got comfortable having sex in front of others, being filmed, group sex, BD$M, etc so now when I'm with a regular woman there's nothing she can throw at me I can't handle and give back to her. Women love a confident, experienced, take charge man in bed and will do just about anything you want once you establish yourself as being in charge. But technique is important also. You've got to be a great kisser, really enjoy going down on a woman, be able to get and stay hard and then know how to use it. I'm not particularly well endowed but I can go for as long as she needs me too and thats another thing women always complain about a lack of men being able to do, so stop jerking off so much.