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r4zorsharp

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I would say I'm at a 5/10 right now as I am working on stuff, such as performance anxiety, self image and erection quality/prematre ejaculation.

As far as eating pu.ssy, I never did it too much as I don't really like smelling pus.sy in all honesty. I mean yeah, guys get used to it.. and most pu.ssies dont smell bad, but they do otherwise and its not a nice smell. I mean i can smell sweat all day long and yet pu.ssy, especially when a girls been drinknig can smell like dead fish. and also its not very pretty either. I mean at least co.cks have a definable shape to them.

I'm pretty good at fingering though and that might be one of my best techniques.

Sexually, I'm used to 3 basic positions and have mostly done missionary and doggystyle because having a girl on top isnt great for me, becasue my penis seems to be its weakest when laying on my back, though if im sitting or standing its fine
 

mrgoodstuff

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I would say I'm at a 5/10 right now as I am working on stuff, such as performance anxiety, self image and erection quality/prematre ejaculation.

As far as eating pu.ssy, I never did it too much as I don't really like smelling pus.sy in all honesty. I mean yeah, guys get used to it.. and most pu.ssies dont smell bad, but they do otherwise and its not a nice smell. I mean i can smell sweat all day long and yet pu.ssy, especially when a girls been drinknig can smell like dead fish. and also its not very pretty either. I mean at least co.cks have a definable shape to them.

I'm pretty good at fingering though and that might be one of my best techniques.

Sexually, I'm used to 3 basic positions and have mostly done missionary and doggystyle because having a girl on top isnt great for me, becasue my penis seems to be its weakest when laying on my back, though if im sitting or standing its fine
Your not the only one with that issue laying on your back. Its a control thing. If she takes control of it a majority of the time you'll lose it. It won't be strong.
 

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If your concern about smells take showers first. Even then some scents won't be compatible with you.
 
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I am a 15/10. I tell a woman that I will rock her world and be by far the best sex she has had or will ever have and then I deliver on it in every possible way.
 

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I am a 15/10. I tell a woman that I will rock her world and be by far the best sex she has had or will ever have and then I deliver on it in every possible way.
what do you feel makes you a 15/10? are you well endowed and have good stamina and such? my length is good but my girth isnt as much. i have had a really crappy diet, lots of junk food in th past 2 years or so and i spent most of my time in the past many years sitting more than doing anything physical
 

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I don't have any problem getting erect but I'm not overly enthusiastic about sex as I used to be

One the mods just mentioned giving a woman the time of her life. I mean why? Why bother?

I really don't feel that way towards women. I can take it or leave it
 

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I would say I'm at a 5/10 right now as I am working on stuff, such as performance anxiety, self image and erection quality/prematre ejaculation.

As far as eating pu.ssy, I never did it too much as I don't really like smelling pus.sy in all honesty. I mean yeah, guys get used to it.. and most pu.ssies dont smell bad, but they do otherwise and its not a nice smell. I mean i can smell sweat all day long and yet pu.ssy, especially when a girls been drinknig can smell like dead fish. and also its not very pretty either. I mean at least co.cks have a definable shape to them.

I'm pretty good at fingering though and that might be one of my best techniques.

Sexually, I'm used to 3 basic positions and have mostly done missionary and doggystyle because having a girl on top isnt great for me, becasue my penis seems to be its weakest when laying on my back, though if im sitting or standing its fine
When it comes to positions, mine are definitely doggy, sideways aka spooning and when shes on top, if im sleeping with a girl who is not too chubby. Performance anxiety happens for most guys if you cant relax because of maybe sress from work or if you just dont find that girl attractive enough
 

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what do you feel makes you a 15/10? are you well endowed and have good stamina and such? my length is good but my girth isnt as much. i have had a really crappy diet, lots of junk food in th past 2 years or so and i spent most of my time in the past many years sitting more than doing anything physical
I have spent a lot of time and effort into learning how to be exceptional at sex since it is the one true area as a man you can distance yourself from the competition relatively easily. Every guy should watch "2 Women Teach Sex" which was created by 2 porn stars and is like 12 hours worth of showing and teaching you how to do everything properly. Thank me later.

Has nothing to do with size. I am slightly above average but I know how to make women cvm, squirt(many of them for the first time of their lives), I have a very short down time period and can go for hours and hours until the woman basically says she is exhausted or that she is too sore.

I also know how to fvck properly. Hard, gentle, positions, techniques, aggressiveness, what to say to them that drives them crazy, etc etc...

At the end of the day I am just sexually very confident because I know I am better than any guy she has ever had. And I am almost never wrong.

And their follow up text messages and constant referencing of my skills backs it up. As do when I meet their friends and they try and get at me because they have heard about it from them...

Best positions are ones that allow you to fully move and go in and out like you are pumping a piston. Her squatting over you on the bed so you can put your feet down, bend your knees and pump like a piston will make them cvm/squirt almost every time if done long enough.

Sitting slightly off the bed and her slightly squatting backwards will allow you to do the same thing.

Sideways is another great position for that and also a position that I am not sure if it has a name but start in missionary, turn sideways and pull her one leg up by your shoulder...you can hammer her deep and give long strokes which will make her cvm hard and then you pull out and use your fingers to just jackhammer her and make her cvm more and more the longer you do it. Then do stuff like lick your fingers and tell her how good she tastes and then stick your fingers in her mouth so she can taste it. Stuff like that drives them wild.
 
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My last GF told me I was the best she ever had, and sent me a card thanking me for "opening new world's to her" so I am doing ok.
 

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I've improved my licking and fingering 10x fold last year when I went on a 8 hour high spree when I incorrectly dosed some edibles accidentally. I kid you not. It made me so in tune with a females body, it's like I had a sixth sense. Now girls tell me I finger them and get them off better than they can do themselves.
 

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Great responses so far guys. I'm going to take it one step at a time. I know that my next performance will be one of my better performances but I'm not in a rush.. I really want everything to be right. One day I wish to have a healthy sex life where I'm having sex very often and self conscious about my performance. I want to be confident as possible that I am the best sex she has ever had and ever will.. To me, thats very important.
 

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I've improved my licking and fingering 10x fold last year when I went on a 8 hour high spree when I incorrectly dosed some edibles accidentally. I kid you not. It made me so in tune with a females body, it's like I had a sixth sense. Now girls tell me I finger them and get them off better than they can do themselves.
"In tune", that's a mind thing. Your brain. Your wavelength. When you have that pleasure is automatically guaranteed. She'd have to be a major azzhole to block it.
 

Mazer

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First, I never go down on a woman until she goes down on me first. Secondly, I bang her from all different angles, talk dirty to her, rough sex sometimes. Lastly, I finger a girl as as I remove her clothing. My penis is inside her 99% of the time. Never had any complaints and a lot of repeat customers. I do go a long time in the sack which sometimes works in my favor (she is turned on that I can go hours) but as you start to have sex with her more, she will take it as an insult that she can’t get you off fast enough. Women.
 

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I would say I'm at a 5/10 right now as I am working on stuff, such as performance anxiety, self image and erection quality/prematre ejaculation.

As far as eating pu.ssy, I never did it too much as I don't really like smelling pus.sy in all honesty. I mean yeah, guys get used to it.. and most pu.ssies dont smell bad, but they do otherwise and its not a nice smell. I mean i can smell sweat all day long and yet pu.ssy, especially when a girls been drinknig can smell like dead fish. and also its not very pretty either. I mean at least co.cks have a definable shape to them.

I'm pretty good at fingering though and that might be one of my best techniques.

Sexually, I'm used to 3 basic positions and have mostly done missionary and doggystyle because having a girl on top isnt great for me, becasue my penis seems to be its weakest when laying on my back, though if im sitting or standing its fine
Rough. Make it rough no matter how you do it.
 

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First, I never go down on a woman until she goes down on me first. Secondly, I bang her from all different angles, talk dirty to her, rough sex sometimes. Lastly, I finger a girl as as I remove her clothing. My penis is inside her 99% of the time. Never had any complaints and a lot of repeat customers. I do go a long time in the sack which sometimes works in my favor (she is turned on that I can go hours) but as you start to have sex with her more, she will take it as an insult that she can’t get you off fast enough. Women.
I wouldn't go down on a bab3 unless I'm regularly fvcking her. There are reasons why it has to be this way.
 

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I would say I'm at a 5/10 right now as I am working on stuff, such as performance anxiety, self image and erection quality/prematre ejaculation.

As far as eating pu.ssy, I never did it too much as I don't really like smelling pus.sy in all honesty. I mean yeah, guys get used to it.. and most pu.ssies dont smell bad, but they do otherwise and its not a nice smell. I mean i can smell sweat all day long and yet pu.ssy, especially when a girls been drinknig can smell like dead fish. and also its not very pretty either. I mean at least co.cks have a definable shape to them.

I'm pretty good at fingering though and that might be one of my best techniques.

Sexually, I'm used to 3 basic positions and have mostly done missionary and doggystyle because having a girl on top isnt great for me, becasue my penis seems to be its weakest when laying on my back, though if im sitting or standing its fine
I can only have a good performance if I feel some connection with a woman. Like good kissing, touching, etc. If that dont happen, I cant have sex with condoms... I just lost completely my erection when I put it. This is so frustrating sometimes and put me on a lot of problems. Cause I started to feel anxious and sometimes end up having unprotected sex.

I'm working on that, cause its psychological stuff... So I have to focus on having sex with women I feel connected or have a good chemistry.

Also, nofap helps a bit... but since I stopped watching porn, I can have a orgasm quick than before. If I'm very excited, its difficult to control.

As my doctor said: If you can have erection, its not ED... its your mind.

The more we worry about performance, the more we lose it... its weird how our mind can be tricky with that.

And man, I can say that most of the women I had sex, if I didn't get the condom and put it... they would allow me to fck without it... Its scaring... And some say to not use it.

And everytime I fall into this idea of having unprotected sex, I get a urethritis... I just got it recently, and this is such a bad experience... It made me feel sad, because of this thing of losing erection with condom with some girls... I should just stop and say I'm not in the mood, but my ego keep saying I'm not a man if I wasnt able to fck her... then I took off the condom and do it. I'm working so much into that... cause it took out my energy to go through those things all over again. And I'm not proud of that... there is no benefit in putting our health in risk.

But my therapist said that everyman have problems with that... we tend to think that we are a exception because most of guys when we are out talking, at least for me... they always say that they have such a great performance with condom... But its not always true.
 

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7/10. Big dvck. Good stamina. No PE.
However, I’ve had ED on a few occasions and it terrifies me.
I don’t eat pu$$y. My fingering is decent.
I’ve actually avoided unplanned sex opportunities because I fear ED so much. Booze, stress, decongestants...boner killers.
 

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7/10. Big dvck. Good stamina. No PE.
However, I’ve had ED on a few occasions and it terrifies me.
I don’t eat pu$$y. My fingering is decent.
I’ve actually avoided unplanned sex opportunities because I fear ED so much. Booze, stress, decongestants...boner killers.
Look into progesterone...it does amazing things for ED
 

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In my experience of sex into the triple digits of different women, I focus on making sure I am pleased. Back in beta days I always used to try to please the woman. Sex is a woman giving themselves to you and instinctively that is how they view it. Be as rough and controlling as you want (obviously don’t be too violent).

How she rates your sex is like everything else purely a function of her interest level. I’ve had what I thought was embarrassing short sex and the woman convulsing and saying it was mind blowing. I’ve also had marathon sex and women not care for it. It is all her interest level. How she feels about you she takes into the bedroom.
 
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