CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
just curious
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How common are shoe lifts or elevator shoes
- Thread starter CornbreadFed
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MatureDJ
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The nearest I've ever come to wearing them was with (cowboy) boots with a 2" heel. But I take the attitude that at some point you're going to be naked (or have just come from being naked), and you're going to have to stand toe-to-toe with your woman, so what's the point in deceiving?
EyeBRollin
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By then it is already too late…
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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I feel like if your wearing lifts your letting the world know your height bothers you, I mean you have "Confidence"and then you have a" Confidence Man" and I feel it's the latter.
Dont be fraudulent, own your look, only time I might say otherwise is like your wedding photos or photos on the wall or something, even then
Dont be fraudulent, own your look, only time I might say otherwise is like your wedding photos or photos on the wall or something, even then