CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
just curious
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How common are shoe lifts or elevator shoes
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
MatureDJ
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The nearest I've ever come to wearing them was with (cowboy) boots with a 2" heel. But I take the attitude that at some point you're going to be naked (or have just come from being naked), and you're going to have to stand toe-to-toe with your woman, so what's the point in deceiving?
EyeBRollin
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By then it is already too late…
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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I feel like if your wearing lifts your letting the world know your height bothers you, I mean you have "Confidence"and then you have a" Confidence Man" and I feel it's the latter.
Dont be fraudulent, own your look, only time I might say otherwise is like your wedding photos or photos on the wall or something, even then
Dont be fraudulent, own your look, only time I might say otherwise is like your wedding photos or photos on the wall or something, even then