CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
just curious
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How common are shoe lifts or elevator shoes
- Thread starter CornbreadFed
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MatureDJ
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The nearest I've ever come to wearing them was with (cowboy) boots with a 2" heel. But I take the attitude that at some point you're going to be naked (or have just come from being naked), and you're going to have to stand toe-to-toe with your woman, so what's the point in deceiving?
EyeBRollin
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By then it is already too late…
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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I feel like if your wearing lifts your letting the world know your height bothers you, I mean you have "Confidence"and then you have a" Confidence Man" and I feel it's the latter.
Dont be fraudulent, own your look, only time I might say otherwise is like your wedding photos or photos on the wall or something, even then
Dont be fraudulent, own your look, only time I might say otherwise is like your wedding photos or photos on the wall or something, even then