"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hi guys,

there´s a question you might be able to shed some light on. Say an average hot chick has no shortage of men to bang her and gets fvckd as often as she likes, which after reading some posts on here is quite often with most women.

Could you explain how come these guys get to bang her (the average chick) if most average guys´ve got no clue about "the game", are betas, needy, all this stuff? At least personally I see so few guys who actually have an idea (I didn´t have until recently) and yet get to bang her while so many others with similar approach don´t. If she has a new guy every week (or even just every month) I doubt there´s so many alphas in her circles so she can just keep changing them. Are they so desperate for sex to just go with anybody when there´s no alpha around?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hi guys,

there´s a question you might be able to shed some light on. Say an average hot chick has no shortage of men to bang her and gets fvckd as often as she likes, which after reading some posts on here is quite often with most women.

Could you explain how come these guys get to bang her (the average chick) if most average guys´ve got no clue about "the game", are betas, needy, all this stuff? At least personally I see so few guys who actually have an idea (I didn´t have until recently) and yet get to bang her while so many others with similar approach don´t. If she has a new guy every week (or even just every month) I doubt there´s so many alphas in her circles so she can just keep changing them. Are they so desperate for sex to just go with anybody when there´s no alpha around?
They have different tastes. Different tastes at different times.
 

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Some guys have game naturally, they dont have to work on it because its already there

They fall into bed with women oblivious to the fact that other men are struggling

They may not look masculine but have something about them only women can see
 

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Some guys have game naturally, they dont have to work on it because its already there

They fall into bed with women oblivious to the fact that other men are struggling

They may not look masculine but have something about them only women can see
This is from a guy ´s perspective and yes I ´ve got a friend like this who fits the description, he can bed like 4 girls a month and he has no clue how he ´s doing it I suppose.

But from a chick ´s perspective, what ´s the chance she ´s gonna get hit up by someone with natural game or an alpha so often. There would have to be A LOT of guys good at this or a huge quantity of guys hitting her up so a couple of them actually stand out.
 

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This is from a guy ´s perspective and yes I ´ve got a friend like this who fits the description, he can bed like 4 girls a month and he has no clue how he ´s doing it I suppose.

But from a chick ´s perspective, what ´s the chance she ´s gonna get hit up by someone with natural game or an alpha so often. There would have to be A LOT of guys good at this or a huge quantity of guys hitting her up so a couple of them actually stand out.
Hes on the right vibe
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is from a guy ´s perspective and yes I ´ve got a friend like this who fits the description, he can bed like 4 girls a month and he has no clue how he ´s doing it I suppose.

But from a chick ´s perspective, what ´s the chance she ´s gonna get hit up by someone with natural game or an alpha so often. There would have to be A LOT of guys good at this or a huge quantity of guys hitting her up so a couple of them actually stand out.
Your geographic location plays a huge role in how often you come across women face to face.
Densely populated cities where public transportation is top notch and the nightlife is booming, bedding 4 girls a month is feasible.
You can pull this off quite easily in NYC, Chicago, London, Moscow, Tokyo, Berlin, and Toronto if you have enough confidence to approach.
 
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Hi guys,

there´s a question you might be able to shed some light on. Say an average hot chick has no shortage of men to bang her and gets fvckd as often as she likes, which after reading some posts on here is quite often with most women.

Could you explain how come these guys get to bang her (the average chick) if most average guys´ve got no clue about "the game", are betas, needy, all this stuff? At least personally I see so few guys who actually have an idea (I didn´t have until recently) and yet get to bang her while so many others with similar approach don´t. If she has a new guy every week (or even just every month) I doubt there´s so many alphas in her circles so she can just keep changing them. Are they so desperate for sex to just go with anybody when there´s no alpha around?
A woman's self-esteem will play a huge role in her sex life. The lower it is, the less attractive the guys she will sleep and get into relationships with which also means there are more candidates.
 
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Your geographic location plays a huge role in how often you come across women face to face.
Densely populated cities where public transportation is top notch and the nightlife is booming, bedding 4 girls a month is feasible.
You can pull this off quite easily in NYC, Chicago, London, Moscow, Tokyo, Berlin, and Toronto if you have enough confidence to approach.
Toronto too?
 

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Your geographic location plays a huge role in how often you come across women face to face.
Densely populated cities where public transportation is top notch and the nightlife is booming, bedding 4 girls a month is feasible.
You can pull this off quite easily in NYC, Chicago, London, Moscow, Tokyo, Berlin, and Toronto if you have enough confidence to approach.
The guy I mentioned pulled this off in an area of around 100k people, sure he had good months and worse ones, I suppose it was easier for him at uni with hundreds of girls in one place.
 
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