"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How come the DJ doesnt work at times?

j8snx1

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First of all, let me humbly admit that this entry sounds AFC.

Second of all, I wanna ask:

Why do guys (in this case, me) sometimes have trouble doing the DJ to some girls, but comes out smoothly with other girls?

Have any of you guys experienced the same or similar period of confusion like mine? How did you go about fixing the problem?


P.S. : i KNOW there will be flaming, but let me just say...cmon now man. My DJ level has been steadily declining lately, and I could really use some words of advice to bring it back up.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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AC/DC

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You're 17.. you still have mood swings, hormonal changes, so it's only NATURAL that you have up days and down days.

You eventually become more stable. Keep doing your best, and if you think you're doing something wrong, STOP, THINK ABOUT IT (consult me or someone else if you have time) and try it again.

If you think you're messing up, keep your mouth shut and just listen to the girl talk or whatever. Focus on creating intimacy with kino, and then you got it.

Even Jesus didn't have every day be a great day. Jesus went around and flipped tables in the Temple of out anger.

Just keep at it and you'll be okay. You're building a solid foundation and we're helping you step by step. Keep at it!

-Sebastian
 

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You're never going to get 100% results, but one valuable thing might be to do some bulk sarging. Only sarging with one girl one class a day (or less)...You're not really going to see the results you're looking for.

Book stores? Coffee shops? Wherever the ladies you want are.
 
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