"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How come the DJ doesnt work at times?

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First of all, let me humbly admit that this entry sounds AFC.

Second of all, I wanna ask:

Why do guys (in this case, me) sometimes have trouble doing the DJ to some girls, but comes out smoothly with other girls?

Have any of you guys experienced the same or similar period of confusion like mine? How did you go about fixing the problem?


P.S. : i KNOW there will be flaming, but let me just say...cmon now man. My DJ level has been steadily declining lately, and I could really use some words of advice to bring it back up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You're 17.. you still have mood swings, hormonal changes, so it's only NATURAL that you have up days and down days.

You eventually become more stable. Keep doing your best, and if you think you're doing something wrong, STOP, THINK ABOUT IT (consult me or someone else if you have time) and try it again.

If you think you're messing up, keep your mouth shut and just listen to the girl talk or whatever. Focus on creating intimacy with kino, and then you got it.

Even Jesus didn't have every day be a great day. Jesus went around and flipped tables in the Temple of out anger.

Just keep at it and you'll be okay. You're building a solid foundation and we're helping you step by step. Keep at it!

-Sebastian
 
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You're never going to get 100% results, but one valuable thing might be to do some bulk sarging. Only sarging with one girl one class a day (or less)...You're not really going to see the results you're looking for.

Book stores? Coffee shops? Wherever the ladies you want are.
 
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