"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How come the DJ doesnt work at times?

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First of all, let me humbly admit that this entry sounds AFC.

Second of all, I wanna ask:

Why do guys (in this case, me) sometimes have trouble doing the DJ to some girls, but comes out smoothly with other girls?

Have any of you guys experienced the same or similar period of confusion like mine? How did you go about fixing the problem?


P.S. : i KNOW there will be flaming, but let me just say...cmon now man. My DJ level has been steadily declining lately, and I could really use some words of advice to bring it back up.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You're 17.. you still have mood swings, hormonal changes, so it's only NATURAL that you have up days and down days.

You eventually become more stable. Keep doing your best, and if you think you're doing something wrong, STOP, THINK ABOUT IT (consult me or someone else if you have time) and try it again.

If you think you're messing up, keep your mouth shut and just listen to the girl talk or whatever. Focus on creating intimacy with kino, and then you got it.

Even Jesus didn't have every day be a great day. Jesus went around and flipped tables in the Temple of out anger.

Just keep at it and you'll be okay. You're building a solid foundation and we're helping you step by step. Keep at it!

-Sebastian
 
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You're never going to get 100% results, but one valuable thing might be to do some bulk sarging. Only sarging with one girl one class a day (or less)...You're not really going to see the results you're looking for.

Book stores? Coffee shops? Wherever the ladies you want are.
 
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