"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How come the DJ doesnt work at times?

j8snx1

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First of all, let me humbly admit that this entry sounds AFC.

Second of all, I wanna ask:

Why do guys (in this case, me) sometimes have trouble doing the DJ to some girls, but comes out smoothly with other girls?

Have any of you guys experienced the same or similar period of confusion like mine? How did you go about fixing the problem?


P.S. : i KNOW there will be flaming, but let me just say...cmon now man. My DJ level has been steadily declining lately, and I could really use some words of advice to bring it back up.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You're 17.. you still have mood swings, hormonal changes, so it's only NATURAL that you have up days and down days.

You eventually become more stable. Keep doing your best, and if you think you're doing something wrong, STOP, THINK ABOUT IT (consult me or someone else if you have time) and try it again.

If you think you're messing up, keep your mouth shut and just listen to the girl talk or whatever. Focus on creating intimacy with kino, and then you got it.

Even Jesus didn't have every day be a great day. Jesus went around and flipped tables in the Temple of out anger.

Just keep at it and you'll be okay. You're building a solid foundation and we're helping you step by step. Keep at it!

-Sebastian
 

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You're never going to get 100% results, but one valuable thing might be to do some bulk sarging. Only sarging with one girl one class a day (or less)...You're not really going to see the results you're looking for.

Book stores? Coffee shops? Wherever the ladies you want are.
 
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