"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how come EVERYTiME.......

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illmatic1005

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after a sexual encounter of some sort..i always worry whether or not i performed well and did everything just right...

also i try to analyze everything she says afterward to see if it relates to me doing a poor job or not..

EVERYTiME after it, i always think that

whyyy?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Interceptor

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Because your Insecurity surfaces and you need constant reassurance.
 
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War Against Betaism

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Must be your first time, don't worry, when you start doing it more you'll learn not to care.
 
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illmatic1005 said:
after a sexual encounter of some sort..i always worry whether or not i performed well and did everything just right...

also i try to analyze everything she says afterward to see if it relates to me doing a poor job or not..
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Why don't you just ask her? I ask "was everything ok?" the day after and when she's says "yes", I buy her a diamond ring.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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john paul

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^good advice, the dimond ring is key
how about if you get her in bed again you can assume you did something right the first time
 
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Women get naked freely in front of each other. Guys don't, unless it's in the locker room. Women, quite frankly, would rather copulate another woman.
 
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