"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how come EVERYTiME.......

illmatic1005

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after a sexual encounter of some sort..i always worry whether or not i performed well and did everything just right...

also i try to analyze everything she says afterward to see if it relates to me doing a poor job or not..

EVERYTiME after it, i always think that

whyyy?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Interceptor

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Because your Insecurity surfaces and you need constant reassurance.
 

War Against Betaism

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Must be your first time, don't worry, when you start doing it more you'll learn not to care.
 

DonJuan11

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illmatic1005 said:
after a sexual encounter of some sort..i always worry whether or not i performed well and did everything just right...

also i try to analyze everything she says afterward to see if it relates to me doing a poor job or not..

Why don't you just ask her? I ask "was everything ok?" the day after and when she's says "yes", I buy her a diamond ring.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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john paul

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^good advice, the dimond ring is key
how about if you get her in bed again you can assume you did something right the first time
 

Poonani Maker

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Women get naked freely in front of each other. Guys don't, unless it's in the locker room. Women, quite frankly, would rather copulate another woman.
 
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