"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how come EVERYTiME.......

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illmatic1005

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after a sexual encounter of some sort..i always worry whether or not i performed well and did everything just right...

also i try to analyze everything she says afterward to see if it relates to me doing a poor job or not..

EVERYTiME after it, i always think that

whyyy?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Interceptor

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Because your Insecurity surfaces and you need constant reassurance.
 
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War Against Betaism

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Must be your first time, don't worry, when you start doing it more you'll learn not to care.
 
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DonJuan11

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illmatic1005 said:
after a sexual encounter of some sort..i always worry whether or not i performed well and did everything just right...

also i try to analyze everything she says afterward to see if it relates to me doing a poor job or not..
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Why don't you just ask her? I ask "was everything ok?" the day after and when she's says "yes", I buy her a diamond ring.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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john paul

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^good advice, the dimond ring is key
how about if you get her in bed again you can assume you did something right the first time
 
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Women get naked freely in front of each other. Guys don't, unless it's in the locker room. Women, quite frankly, would rather copulate another woman.
 
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