I mean how do you know whether or not she's giving you her number because she interested in you? I ask because recently I've got a number every time I ask (I've got about 10 numbers last week, mind you quite of few of them have been from girls who are friends of friends or old co-workers). I think that many of these girls even have boyfriends. Thanks for your thoughts
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How can you tell why a girl's giving you their number?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
this is why, try to set up a date on the spot,or Kcloss, or play around and ask if she's taken.
if she is taken, leave, unless she really wants you and you know shes a HB9. in which case you CANNOT and SHOULD NOT deny her.
when you get the number, how do you do it?
how do they give you the number? is it a flirty convo? friendly one?
you should be able to tell if they flirt with you or not..in which case, they interested
if she is taken, leave, unless she really wants you and you know shes a HB9. in which case you CANNOT and SHOULD NOT deny her.
when you get the number, how do you do it?
how do they give you the number? is it a flirty convo? friendly one?
you should be able to tell if they flirt with you or not..in which case, they interested
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Just call them and find out. If they don't answer or return your calls- they weren't interested and just gave you the number to avoid a scene at the bar.
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Check this out:
http://www.aquiziam.com/female_body_language.html
Sometimes you can get your answer before you even call that number. It's not always entirely accurate, but you can try to get a read on her body language, and tone with you to see if she's interested.
http://www.aquiziam.com/female_body_language.html
Sometimes you can get your answer before you even call that number. It's not always entirely accurate, but you can try to get a read on her body language, and tone with you to see if she's interested.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.