"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How can you tell why a girl's giving you their number?

Kal0051

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I mean how do you know whether or not she's giving you her number because she interested in you? I ask because recently I've got a number every time I ask (I've got about 10 numbers last week, mind you quite of few of them have been from girls who are friends of friends or old co-workers). I think that many of these girls even have boyfriends. Thanks for your thoughts
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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COD

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chics give #'s for all sorts of reasons........too many to list, whats your purpose for getting her number, it should be to set up a date.
 

slickaz

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this is why, try to set up a date on the spot,or Kcloss, or play around and ask if she's taken.
if she is taken, leave, unless she really wants you and you know shes a HB9. in which case you CANNOT and SHOULD NOT deny her. :p

when you get the number, how do you do it?
how do they give you the number? is it a flirty convo? friendly one?
you should be able to tell if they flirt with you or not..in which case, they interested
 

sodbuster

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Just call them and find out. If they don't answer or return your calls- they weren't interested and just gave you the number to avoid a scene at the bar.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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