I mean how do you know whether or not she's giving you her number because she interested in you? I ask because recently I've got a number every time I ask (I've got about 10 numbers last week, mind you quite of few of them have been from girls who are friends of friends or old co-workers). I think that many of these girls even have boyfriends. Thanks for your thoughts
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How can you tell why a girl's giving you their number?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
this is why, try to set up a date on the spot,or Kcloss, or play around and ask if she's taken.
if she is taken, leave, unless she really wants you and you know shes a HB9. in which case you CANNOT and SHOULD NOT deny her.
when you get the number, how do you do it?
how do they give you the number? is it a flirty convo? friendly one?
you should be able to tell if they flirt with you or not..in which case, they interested
if she is taken, leave, unless she really wants you and you know shes a HB9. in which case you CANNOT and SHOULD NOT deny her.
when you get the number, how do you do it?
how do they give you the number? is it a flirty convo? friendly one?
you should be able to tell if they flirt with you or not..in which case, they interested
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Just call them and find out. If they don't answer or return your calls- they weren't interested and just gave you the number to avoid a scene at the bar.
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Check this out:
http://www.aquiziam.com/female_body_language.html
Sometimes you can get your answer before you even call that number. It's not always entirely accurate, but you can try to get a read on her body language, and tone with you to see if she's interested.
http://www.aquiziam.com/female_body_language.html
Sometimes you can get your answer before you even call that number. It's not always entirely accurate, but you can try to get a read on her body language, and tone with you to see if she's interested.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.