"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How can you tell why a girl's giving you their number?

Kal0051

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I mean how do you know whether or not she's giving you her number because she interested in you? I ask because recently I've got a number every time I ask (I've got about 10 numbers last week, mind you quite of few of them have been from girls who are friends of friends or old co-workers). I think that many of these girls even have boyfriends. Thanks for your thoughts
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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COD

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chics give #'s for all sorts of reasons........too many to list, whats your purpose for getting her number, it should be to set up a date.
 

slickaz

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this is why, try to set up a date on the spot,or Kcloss, or play around and ask if she's taken.
if she is taken, leave, unless she really wants you and you know shes a HB9. in which case you CANNOT and SHOULD NOT deny her. :p

when you get the number, how do you do it?
how do they give you the number? is it a flirty convo? friendly one?
you should be able to tell if they flirt with you or not..in which case, they interested
 

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Just call them and find out. If they don't answer or return your calls- they weren't interested and just gave you the number to avoid a scene at the bar.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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